I bought my girlfriend a vibrator for Christmas awhile back and we had to move away from each other to try the long distance thing. Skype calls have never been the same!
There’s A Girl At School I’ve Liked For Awhile Now, She Seems Like She Likes Me. We Share Alot Of Intrests, We Talk On FaceBook. But Everyday That I Tell Myself “I’m Going To Ask Her Out.” I Always Back Out. Because I Dont Want To Embarrass Myself. What Do I Do? Please Help Me!
Laci! Ok this is not advice but what ever happened to the riddle. Awhile back you did that broadcast for the charity thing? That guy said if you can find the answer to the riddle he’d donate like 20,000 dollars. What ever happened to that answer? Did you find it out? I hope you did!
Heeey Laci. I just wanna say thank you for all ur great vids. I watch them every saturday :) I just love to listen to ur voice, cuz when u say it, it just sounds…. right :) ?
Make more vids!:))
Much of loooove, Simone :D
Hi Laci.
After watching your “america is fat” video I thought you might like to watch this documentary: “Why Are Thin People Not Fat”.
It’s really interesting. It is true that exess calories turn into fat (unless you are asian*), but obesity really is more complicated than that.
cheers!
(*watch the documentary, you’ll know what I mean :P)
Hey I seen your youtube video on crazy fetishes. I was very interested in it because I am a 21 year old Male who has a huge fetish for ladies shoes and boots. Im very curious how your first encounter you said you had with a shoe fetishist went because I have a girlfriend who I havent told. Please email me back as I am very interested! :)
Dear Lacy, I recently watched your video on squirters and I really believe that is what I am, but my question is, can I still orgasm? I’ve tried orgasming but instead I squirt, and it is frustrating my boyfriend and I because I would really like to know how to orgasm, but nothing seems to be working. And also, where is the orgasm suppose to come from? From the place we pee, or somewhere else? I’m very confused and I feel like if I had an orgasm I probably would not know what it is, so can you please explain it? Thank you for your time. :D
You will most definitely know what it is! And it is a whole body thing and a very different feeling than squirting but it starts in essentially the same place depending on whether its a vaginal or clitoral orgasm. Practice on your own more! Keep going even after you squirt. Don’t get discouraged because it’ll probably take a while the first time. Focus on your clitoris and if possible use a vibrator. If not maybe it’d be beneficial to use a shower head or bath faucett or even a vibrating massager (these help a lot when you get tired because you hands tend to do that!) and don’t stress! Stay relaxed and get aroused a ton before ever touching yourself or having anyone else touch you! Try sexy talk or grabbing in turn on places and nibbling and sucking spots like uyour neck, ears, breasts, etc. Have fun!
So… I’ve been texting this guy who goes to my school for a couple weeks, he’s a junior i’m a sophmore. I really like him, but we barely talked during the school year & now it’s summer. But he asked me out and I want to say yes but Idk what we’d talk about or how to go about this…
Hey!
So I’m a 13 years old homosexual (male) and I really don’t know whats happening (my life has been really crazy) so I wanna know if you have any tips to explore you sexuality (I really don’t know if I’m gay or bisexual and I’m really confused). And I just want to know if it’s strange that I’ve almost lost my virginity with 2 boys (when I was 10 years old, all I did was oral sex). And I often get depressed over, that I can’t get a boyfriend, so how can I get over that?
Please respond, I really need your help!
EMERGENCY PLEASE READ: hi laci my mom just put me on birthcontrol. Even though me and my mom are both very open about sex with eachother and being safe she put me on birthcontrol. All of my peers have had sex and are either using condoms or on birthcontrol. BUt you see im am feeling preesured to have sex by mom mom and my peers now because of this birthcontrol thing. Im 12 what do you think i should do? do you think my mom thinks that im having sex? should i feel pressured because of this or am i just being silly ?
hey this is just my input… no one should ever pressure you to have sex especially at 12. only ever do so if u feel 100% comfortable and you feel that the situation is safe ie you’re in a committed relationship.you’re std free etc. being on birth control is just to make sure you’re extra safe from falling pregnant. hope this helps
Hello Laci I was looking around on youtube and I found some videos about having. an “Orgasmic Birth” and thought that it would be a great subject for you actually I’m surprised you havn’t already lol jk.
hi laci, im a virgin and i REALLY want to score. but the thing is, im only in middle school so if i did, many balls would be flipped. a bunch of girls kinda like me but i would never use some one for sex. besides, i dont like them that much. im getting really crazy, and its like im a catholic priest cause ill just hump anything in sight and pretend that what im humping is emma watson or lindsay lohan. damn. anything i can do?
Hey Laci, I couldn’t find another way of contacting you, so here goes….
Dear Laci,
I am a 17 year old boy who still hasn’t lost his virginity. But it seems to me that women are getting to the point where they don’t want men at all. I’ve just been used by all the women I know, partially because I’m “too nice” or what not, but it seems with feminism going strong that the men of my generation, who have done nothing wrong, are being viewed differently. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for equality, but it seems like women want nothing to do with men right now, or at least with me. I’ve been told I look great, I’m not fat, I’m funny, but girls just don’t seem to want to go out with me, one even said it was only because I was a virgin. This kind of thing hurts my feelings, and I have no one I can talk to about it. All of my male friends will just tell me to suck it up, and I don’t want to sound whiny to any girls…. I just don’t know what to do. I’m afraid that if I go to college in the next year or two with my v-card still intact I will be viewed as weird, and the girls will think “if he hasn’t done it by now there must be something wrong with him” and stay as far away from me as possible. Along with this, I’m kind of scared about sex, I feel like if a vibrator would make the girl feel better, then if I really care about her I should just get her that and leave her alone, I’m really confused. I feel like I must have some sort of chick repellent built into me or something. I would almost feel better if I was out of shape, or ugly, because then I could at least blame it on something. As it is right now I feel very insecure and useless.
I apologize for the long letter, and I know you are busy, but any response would be greatly appreciated.
Hey you, I will attempt to answer your question and I hope I do not come across as harsh as I will attempt to be very honest ( and I don’t honey up the hard facts).
Hun, you are young and perhaps may not understand this yet, especially if you come from a loving home with great parents, but the world does not owe us things simply because we are fabulous. Problem is, girls and guys have this assumption that we should get whatever we desire as soon as we desire it and if we do not the world, and everything in it, sucks.
As much as we would love to rob people of their free will and make them do what we want we cannot. A girl has a right to choose, or not choose you. This doesn’t make her evil or hate men and it may not have anything to do with you at all.
When I first went on the dating scene I decided to not only wait to BE approached but to also approach men. I kept in mind that as a woman, I always hated when a guy could not take no for an answer and decided to respect a man’s right to say no.
With this approach I was able to meet some wonderful men–but not every one of them said yes.
I kept in mind that there could be 101 reasons why the man may not wish to date me. Some would tell me why (in between jobs, concentrating on college studies) others would not. I did not automatically assume it was because they were angry, gay or hated women.
Case in point–There were times I did not want to date for a number of reasons. One of them had to do with the fact that I had just got our of a bad relationship and just needed to breathe. There was even a point in my life where I became a “born again virgin” and dedicated three years to just working on what I wanted out of life. The decision was a great one cause shortly after I started dating again I met my husband. I was 35 years old when this happened.
Before you can even start dating you need to recognize that no one owes you a date just cause you want one. Nothing is life is owed to any of us. You also have to learn not to take rejection personally–there could be 101 reasons why a person says no. Lose the anger as well or you will become bitter and misogynistic which will really cut your chances for finding a mate down tremendously ( what person of any substance wants to be with an angry and bitter mate?)
Respect a person’s right to say no and move on–dating is a numbers game anyway–so keep asking and eventually someone will say yes.
And please do not start with the women do not like nice guys stuff–that is simply not true. Only idiotic immature girls want bad boys. Women of intellect and substance want guys like you so just be patient–it could take time to find her.
If you can’t learn to do these very important things, dating will only make you frustrated, angry and bitter due to unrealistic expectations and a sense that you should be handed everything you want just because.
Love your videos, they’re awesome and you’re awesome.
I just watched your bonus video “How To Find the Clitoris,” it’s pretty obvious that you know something about vibrators and I’m wondering if you can give me some sex toy advice.
When I eat pussy…(forgive me using improper terms, but I think it’s the most effective and efficient use of words. “Eating vagina” just sounds awkward. “Performing cunnilingus” isn’t quite right, because it’s a noun, which refers to the performer, and besides it sounds too clinical. “Performing oral sex” needs to be followed by “on a woman” to fully explain what’s being done and on whom. That’s way too many words. But “Eating pussy” describes what and on whom in just two words).
Anyhow, when I eat pussy I always try to add a bit of variety to my performance. Not necessarily with regards to tongue technique, but with regards to her experience as a whole. I like adding a little element of surprise to keep my routine from becoming predictable and boring. For example:
Sometimes we’ll do a little role playing.
Sometimes I’ll give her some analingus.
Sometimes I’ll lick her clean after I’ve made a deposit.
Sometimes I play a dice game with her. I have her roll two dice and the number that comes up is the number of times that she must orgasm, but the only ones that count are the ones she feeds me. In reality it doesn’t matter what number she rolls, because she will be eaten out for as long and as often as she desires.
Sometimes I’ll leave her panties on while I kiss, nibble, lick, worship and savor every inch of her body, from her fingertips to her lips and from her nose to her toes. As she ripens, I’ll suck her juice right through the fabric of her panties as it oozes out of her. Meanwhile, I’m secretly nibbling a starter hole. When she can no longer wait to be eaten, I’ll tear her panties apart at the crotch and feast on her juicy wet pussy. The best part is sending her home completely satisfied, but with soaked and shredded panties, or no panties at all.
Sometimes, between rounds of eating her out, I’ll attend to the various steps involved in giving her a luxurious salon quality pedicure.
Sometimes I’ll quietly eat her out while she on the phone. Sometimes she’s on the phone with her significant other.
Sometimes I eat her out in different places. Places where she’s never been eaten out before. Places she’d never expect to be eaten out. Places she has fantasized about being eaten out.
The idea is to keep her anticipating and wondering about her next time. I’m always trying to vary her experience and I’m always looking for new ideas. I’ve been thinking about incorporating a sex toy into my performance and that’s where I’d like your advice.
Is this a good idea?
Will she become desensitized or so accustomed to the toy that the only way she can achieve orgasm is with the vibrator? I’m not looking for a substitute to eating pussy, I enjoy eating pussy too much. I don’t want to compete with the vibrator, I just want to introduce something different that will supplement my performance and enhance her experience.
What toy should I get? Should I get something to stimulate her vagina while I’m licking her clit; or something to stimulate her clit while I’m tongue fucking her; or something to stimulate her ass while I’m eating her out; or something to stimulate her vagina and/or clit while my tongue is buried in her ass? I just came up with four new independent variations to performing oral sex on a women. Is there a toy suitable for all situations?
The toys I’ve seen at the local adult video store look cheap and junky. I’m willing to pay for something that’s going to last.
This will be my toy, not hers, which means I may use it to pleasure other women. So I want something that can be 100% sterilized.
I want something powerful, but not too powerful.
It should be waterproof.
Who should be in control of the toy, her or I? The length of the toy should accommodate the one controlling it. How long should it be?
Your feedback will be greatly appreciated, I’m eagerly looking forward to eating pussy whilst using a vibrator on my partner.
You’re 22 years old. I have t-shirts older than you. You know nothing of the world, and you’re too clueless to know that your fame is solely due to the fact that you’re a pretty young girl with nice tits who talks about sex. No one is reading for knowledge gain. They’re reading because it gets them off. Know that they vast majority of your fans are creepy old guys who can’t get laid. They’re all jerking off while looking at your pics.
You’re a child who’s barely old enough to be trusted with a can of beer. Take it down a notch. This will all make sense in about 10 years.
Because Laci is young and pretty she should just shut up and sit down? Are you serious?
Laci probably won’t say this but I will–how dare you! Of all the misogynistic BS I have heard this tops them all. why do I have a feeling that if Laci was an unattractive 35 year old lady you’d still take exception with what she is saying because you probably dislike any sign of female empowerment, young or old, pretty or cow like.
FYI–Just because there may be pervs lurking around on here who want to look at a pretty chick doesn’t devalue what this young lady has to say about sex–especially if she is herself is sexually active.
But the problem with American men–hell, men in general–is that they want to define sex only in terms of their own expression and what they get out of it and women should just be happy a dude shows up with a penis in his hand.
Guess what–I am a 42 year old black female and I give a hearty amen to what Laci is saying, in fact, I have been saying it for years.
Women have the right to display and to define their own sexuality–all you have the right t to do is agree or not agree with their definitions.
But then, what I usually find is that men who are threatened by intelligent women are the ones who freak out at this show of courage, tell them to cover up and blame short skirts for some low life deciding to rape a chick. I wonder what excuse men like that use when a woman in a head to toe burka is raped–Oh I guess the sun glinted enticingly off her eyeball or something *rolls eyes*
Men are not three year old infants who cannot handle a little skin. And they certainly should be secure enough to allow women to set the boundaries on their own sexuality.
But I suppose with only 25 percent of the male population being able to give women the big “O” using their pee-pees, we can understand why CERTAIN men would feel the urge to suppress female sensuality–I mean–cuts down on embarrassing moments when men get to be in complete control doesn’t it…?
PS–you have 22 year old shirts? Dude nasty–throw those things away–LOL!
You tell him ! that is not only sexist but agist ! Someone young and beautiful AND FEMALE can be just as smart and wise as some old guy wearing 22 year old shirts sitting behind a computer feeling all big because he tried to put down a successful young woman. Dude get a grip
All I can say is girl do yo thang girl, do yo thang–I LOVE it–as a bi woman who creates erotic graphic novels ( as well as horror sci fi) I can tell you that most have no idea what sex positivity truly means. Spread the word beautiful!
i have a question…maybe a silly one about queefing. what causes it and how can i deal with it? my boyfriend and i were recently having sex and my vagina made this sound and it was really embarrassing. advice please?
Hey Laci, love the videos and how you introduce a lot of ethos and logos in them. Maybe you’ve done a video on this already or mildly touched on this subject, but how about a video about male birth control? I fint it so unfair that society seems to look in the direction of women to be responsble and take birth control. Furthermore, the same way birth control prevents unwanted births for women, wouldn’t it be great for men to have the same priviledge and not be knocking up so many women?
It’s just a thought, but thanks for listening.
PS, we’ve heard you rant mostly about Christianity, how about covering other religions like Islam and Judaism. I’m interested in your views.
Hi Lacey!! I just want to say I LOVE you and your videos. I don’t know what I’d do without your advice; they’ve helped me with so much!! :)
Anyways, I have an issue. I’m a 15 year old sophomore girl in high school and I still haven’t had my first kiss. :\ (I’m a virgin, yes.) I have experience with dating and I’ve almost kissed a boy before, but I chickened out. All of my friends have had their first kiss, and I feel ashamed and embarrassed because I haven’t even kissed a boy on the cheek!! :( Please help me, Laci. I really want to get over this fear. I’m scared that since all of the boys I know have plenty experience with kissing, if I kiss one of them I’m gonna mess up and not know what to do.
I was hoping you or someone else on here could give me some advice. I just need help on how to kiss (“french” kiss I guess you could call it) and how to get more out there and find a boyfriend. Thanks for all your help. Please respond!!
I recently found you on youtube while searching the web on “good ways to ask out a stranger”. Your advice and blogs seem pretty cool so I’m gonna ask you. I havent had a chance to watch all of your vids so please send me a link if you have already covered this subject.
senario:
There is this totaly cute gal that works at the checkout lane at my local supermarket. Of course it is her job to be friendly to people and whenever I go threw her line we always have a smile and some small talk…really small talk, because there are always other customers behind me. I really want to ask her out but the timing never seems right with her being at work and all and I dont want to embarress her in front of people.
So if I am getting this vibe of her being a bit mor friendly to me and I can work up the courage to ask her out, what do you think would be a direct, friendly, fast, non pressure, non scene making way to do it???
The idea I had was next time I go threw her line just say “hey, what do you think about letting me take you out sometime so I can stop coming in here and buying a bunch of shit I dont really need just to get a chance to talk to you?” All with a nice smile and some sort of compliment.
Heyy :) ..your videos have been very helpful and I love your advice. I particularly like the one “she’s such a slut”. In relation to this, you should do a video on how you should be “respected” during sexual activity even if its being considered in society slutty? The main reason I don’t put myself out there is not only that I may be called a “slut” but also losing “respect”. I want to be sexually more experienced but don’t want the guy or other guys to lose respect from me? Do any other girls have these issues?
Hey Laci!
I recently had an experience in which I was unsure how to react, and I thought that it might make an interesting topic for one of your videos.
I was biking in my university campus and a guy in a car stopped to me to ask for directions, and while I was giving them to him, I noticed that he had his penis out and it was hard! The second I noticed I stopped talking and looked at him directly in shock, and at that point he smiled at me and asked me if he could go home with me. The only thing I managed to do was say NO and hopped on my back and rode away. Luckily this happend in a street in which he could not follow me in his car, so he just turned around and left. At that point I felt safe, but completely stupid that I did not think to even look at his license plates. I felt mad about the fact that I couldn’t properly report him.
The next day a friend of mine told me she had had the same encounter half an hour before me in the same place. We reported him to security in campus, but of course, without his license plate, there’s not much they can do.
My question is this: How do you process this experience? I know it wasn’t my fault that it happend to me and I know that it was good to just walk away from the situation… But I guess what I’m trying to do here is understand this kind of behavior so that I can feel safer if it ever happens again. A friend told us that usually these people just pick one place for the day and then not come back to it, so that we shouldn’t worry about seeing him again… But still, I would like to better understand this type of behavior.
What do you think?
Thanks for reading this, I’m a big fan of your project!
Hey Laci!
I totally love your videos, they are very educative
But I’m concerned about your spirituality.
A true spiritual person does not have ego in his/her soul and they don’t hate anything: neither robbers, neither criminals, neither rapists, neither thieves, neither religion.
Live and let live.
Please make a video on this topic so your viewers may also be informed.
Thanks in advance!
Peace!
Hey Laci, I love your videos and opinions on things. I was just wondering if you could do a video on birth control and the different types of contraception. That would be wondrous and helpful to those who have questions about it. Thank you for making such helpful videos! (:
I know people who read this are going to say things i already know, but maybe i just need to hear other people’s thoughts.
I am 20 years old. I haven’t had a period since April 23, 2012.
And the the time before that was Feb, 14, 2012.
I went the the doctor April 2 and i got blood work done. Everything was fine, I wasn’t pregnant. She said it’s normal for women to skip a cycle sometimes. I thought nothing of it. But now I’m not getting it again. I’m not stressed out, i don’t have anything else going on. I don’t believe that i am pregnant, i don’t really want to go out and spend more money on pregnancy tests. I’ve spent already too much money on them. I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want to go back to the doctor. All the things i read on google scare me also. I just need some advice and if anybody else has been going through something similar. Thanks so much!
Hey !
I just wanted to say thank you for your videos, because they helped me to grow up a little, to be more often about a lot of topics and to love me for what i am…. Your advices are really great and i love what you’re doing ! So please don’t stop !!! ( whatever stupid people say )
Thanks for your videos !!!!
Hi Laci,
I have just come across your website because of jenna anne twitting. Besides the point: I came out a lesbian about a year ago and I am completely content about it and really proud but there was still something missing. Something that I needed to figure out for myself not to categorize myself but to better understand myself as to why I’m feeling certain ways when things happen to me. So I came across your gender identity video and that hit a nerve and I am a girl and I was trying to figure out what I am because I don’t feel entirely a ”girl” but not a ”boy” either but definitely more on the boy side and I was wondering if you could clarify (not to be ignorant) but you are not automatically transgender if you feel this way. I am just a bit confused on the subject still. Thanks a million :) stay cool
So, I’ve been wondering if one’s boobs (particularly their nipples) will get bigger if they are “fondled” or sucked too often.
I know it seems like a “if your boyfriend touches your boobs will they grow” type of question, but I’ve been trying to search it up and I keep getting contradicting answers. Help?
Hey I watched your bisexual video and it still never cleared things up for me, I almost 17 and the bit about how you can like guys and girls but like Guys a little bit more or vice versa. I feel that way I tend to get crushes on guys but find girls attractive until I met this girl at a party (she is a lesbian) and we really hit it off, we had loads in common and found myself starting to like like her. But she got off with another girl, this girl I asked if she was bisexual or lesbian and she said neither she just liked to get off with girls when she was drunk. That made me wonder if I was just going through a phase or something ? But I have felt this way for a couple of years. I have no one to talk tothis about because everyone I know has this perception that if you bisexual you are only doing it for attention or you are denying being gay. I have a friend who is bisexual but mostly prefers boys and my mum tells me all the time that he is gay and in denial, so I can’t talk to her about it. I’ve never even kissed a girl and I’ve only kissed two boys (which I did not enjoy) so I am really confused. I’ve ranted too long so please can I have some advice ?
Hey, I just found your videos less than 30 minutes ago. I’ve got to say your awesome! Your funny, you know what your talking about, and you are so confident.
I’m going to keep watching your videos, maybe they’ll help me learn to love myself for who I am :)
Also I’ve been curious about the same sex for a while, so I’ll see how that goes.
I have a question. I’m a girl but I have little interest in sex. It’s not that I don’t have any interest, but it’s not important to me and it doesn’t cross my mind and when I do have sex – no matter who it is with – after a few minutes I’m not into it anymore. I mean, I feel almost nothing when it happens or sometimes I really want to have sex but my body doesn’t agree with me.
I’ve considered asexuality, but after looking into it I don’t think I am. I’m sexually attracted to people, but…sex…sometimes, it’s…a hassle. I was wondering if there is any reason for this or something I can do to work on it. I know my boyfriend is starting to probably think it has something to do with him, but I know it’s not.
One night I went to my local variety store to pick up the latest porn magazine, after doing so I took a short-cut home through an alleyway. As I made my way through I was looking at the magazine and couldn’t wait to get home. I started jerking off right there and suddenly these 3 black guys came out of nowhere and had their way(sexually) with me. After they were done I really didn’t feel like jerking off anymore so I just went home. It was an interesting experience however, and I look forward to it in the future.
What do you do if you’re scared to have people see the past you? I have a problem with depression, and I have scars all over. =s I don’t like being judged by others. How do I deal with this?
laicgreen I miss your vids on youtube I don’t know what your going through right now I just wanted to let you know that me as one of your fans realy do miss you, your vids tought me so much about myself about how I look at my body that I dont need to look likea barbie doll to be beautiful just the way I am is enough. same with my sexuality I know now I dont have to choses right away and that I dont have to desied because outhers might look down on me.
so i just came here to tell you i miss you and i thank you.
I have a question, Im attracted to most girls personalities but not very attracted sexualy. With guys its the opposite… got any tips to make or anything to say to make it work better? am i bisexual?
You’re videos are great but something I’m pretty sure you haven’t touched on is the topic of romantic versus sexual attraction. I know some gay men who are confused about their sexuality because they are in love with a woman, but only attracted to men, and therefore believe they are not gay, which isn’t the reality of the situation.
Also, going along with this topic, define the difference between loving someone and loving the IDEA of being with someone, for the sake of your social or sexual status (i.e. a gay man may force himself to believe he wants to be with a woman in order to convince himself and others that he’s straight until he sees her naked in the bedroom.)
It would be nice if you were to clear this up for some of your viewers who may be going through the same issue.
Hey Laci, I really need your advice please help ><
I have fallen for my girl best friend, even though we've only spent 1 year and 2 months together as being friends, I have already confessed to her that I like her a while ago. We have also shared a good amount of memories, experiences and deep secrets together, such as during the time when she broke up with her ex boyfriend I was there trying to comfort her no matter how late we stay up at night, I've tried my very best to make her at least smile and laugh once a day, I wish her goodmorning/night everyday, she has cried in front of me already due to the break up, so like any other person would do is to comfort them right? I've soo visited her a number of times already especially during the time when she was really ill. She also says that she misses me a good amount of times already, she also said that she's starting to fall for me. During the time we spent together we also shared our very first kiss. I've given all my very best effort just to make her happy and ease the pain she had during her break up. But then during this past week she has started to talk to another guy (who is her friend but also her ex's bestfriend) she already had a crush on him a while ago but i didn't mind it, however she began to ignore me and everything I do for her such as everytime I text her just to see how her day went etc, she does text back after a good amount of hours but I have noticed that she has putting no effort on her texts, but we do facetime and i see her giving her biggest effort on her text with that other guy by jsut looking at her smile, I then over heard her say that she is started to fall for him.
So im completely confused right now, was everything she told me was a lie? should i leave her? should i just stay there and back down? She also has had really bad past, where we vowed not to leave each other ever which i didn't mind at all. But then again I am completely torn apart right now, please could give me some advice on this situation, I'm sorry that this is a long message too..
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
I’ve been watching your videos, and girl do i have to say they help big time! But, my boyfriend cannot last over 30 seconds and i last longer but after he gets off he wont help me and im left hanging. what do i do? ive tried talking to him about it and it doesnt work. i need your advice!!
1- when the atheists become leaders they kill millions
Adolf Hitler { Atheist } : Killed 40 million Human
Joseph Stalin { Atheist } : Killed 20 million Human
Vladimir Lenin { Atheist } Killed 200,000 Human
Mao Tse Tung { Atheist } Killed 50 million Human
Kim Il-sung { Atheist } : Killed 4 million Human
Pol Pot – Cambodia Leader { Atheist }: Killed 2 million Human
Fidel Castro { Atheist }: Killed 1 million Human
and that not because they were communists .. because communism is a political and economic system , to make justice between the rich and the poor ..etc .. it didn’t contain any base that you have to kill some millions or your people to became a true communist ..
Actually they made all this killing because they didn’t fear from anything ( God or judgment day .. ) so they start to kill millions
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2- killing the children is Allowed in Atheism , because atheism didn’t contain any basics or ethics or forbidden things
every crime or rape or killing is allowed in atheism too !!
I bought my girlfriend a vibrator for Christmas awhile back and we had to move away from each other to try the long distance thing. Skype calls have never been the same!
I do not know … I would feel weird using synthetic vagina …. :P ;)
There’s A Girl At School I’ve Liked For Awhile Now, She Seems Like She Likes Me. We Share Alot Of Intrests, We Talk On FaceBook. But Everyday That I Tell Myself “I’m Going To Ask Her Out.” I Always Back Out. Because I Dont Want To Embarrass Myself. What Do I Do? Please Help Me!
This looks like something you might be interested in talking about.
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/CookieCutterCuties
Laci! Ok this is not advice but what ever happened to the riddle. Awhile back you did that broadcast for the charity thing? That guy said if you can find the answer to the riddle he’d donate like 20,000 dollars. What ever happened to that answer? Did you find it out? I hope you did!
Heeey Laci. I just wanna say thank you for all ur great vids. I watch them every saturday :) I just love to listen to ur voice, cuz when u say it, it just sounds…. right :) ?
Make more vids!:))
Much of loooove, Simone :D
I am very interessed in a job as sex educator.
but I have a question.
What training do you have to do?
Please answer
Hi Laci.
After watching your “america is fat” video I thought you might like to watch this documentary: “Why Are Thin People Not Fat”.
It’s really interesting. It is true that exess calories turn into fat (unless you are asian*), but obesity really is more complicated than that.
cheers!
(*watch the documentary, you’ll know what I mean :P)
Hey I seen your youtube video on crazy fetishes. I was very interested in it because I am a 21 year old Male who has a huge fetish for ladies shoes and boots. Im very curious how your first encounter you said you had with a shoe fetishist went because I have a girlfriend who I havent told. Please email me back as I am very interested! :)
Dear Lacy, I recently watched your video on squirters and I really believe that is what I am, but my question is, can I still orgasm? I’ve tried orgasming but instead I squirt, and it is frustrating my boyfriend and I because I would really like to know how to orgasm, but nothing seems to be working. And also, where is the orgasm suppose to come from? From the place we pee, or somewhere else? I’m very confused and I feel like if I had an orgasm I probably would not know what it is, so can you please explain it? Thank you for your time. :D
You will most definitely know what it is! And it is a whole body thing and a very different feeling than squirting but it starts in essentially the same place depending on whether its a vaginal or clitoral orgasm. Practice on your own more! Keep going even after you squirt. Don’t get discouraged because it’ll probably take a while the first time. Focus on your clitoris and if possible use a vibrator. If not maybe it’d be beneficial to use a shower head or bath faucett or even a vibrating massager (these help a lot when you get tired because you hands tend to do that!) and don’t stress! Stay relaxed and get aroused a ton before ever touching yourself or having anyone else touch you! Try sexy talk or grabbing in turn on places and nibbling and sucking spots like uyour neck, ears, breasts, etc. Have fun!
So… I’ve been texting this guy who goes to my school for a couple weeks, he’s a junior i’m a sophmore. I really like him, but we barely talked during the school year & now it’s summer. But he asked me out and I want to say yes but Idk what we’d talk about or how to go about this…
my confession : Laci i think your beaut! and i <3 all your video's and i dont know what i'd do without you! <3
my confession is that i have a big ass crush Kristina Horner from Allcaps what should i do about it ?
I’ve never had sex till now :(
Forgot to mention, I am 25
Hey!
So I’m a 13 years old homosexual (male) and I really don’t know whats happening (my life has been really crazy) so I wanna know if you have any tips to explore you sexuality (I really don’t know if I’m gay or bisexual and I’m really confused). And I just want to know if it’s strange that I’ve almost lost my virginity with 2 boys (when I was 10 years old, all I did was oral sex). And I often get depressed over, that I can’t get a boyfriend, so how can I get over that?
Please respond, I really need your help!
EMERGENCY PLEASE READ: hi laci my mom just put me on birthcontrol. Even though me and my mom are both very open about sex with eachother and being safe she put me on birthcontrol. All of my peers have had sex and are either using condoms or on birthcontrol. BUt you see im am feeling preesured to have sex by mom mom and my peers now because of this birthcontrol thing. Im 12 what do you think i should do? do you think my mom thinks that im having sex? should i feel pressured because of this or am i just being silly ?
hey this is just my input… no one should ever pressure you to have sex especially at 12. only ever do so if u feel 100% comfortable and you feel that the situation is safe ie you’re in a committed relationship.you’re std free etc. being on birth control is just to make sure you’re extra safe from falling pregnant. hope this helps
Hello Laci I was looking around on youtube and I found some videos about having. an “Orgasmic Birth” and thought that it would be a great subject for you actually I’m surprised you havn’t already lol jk.
hi laci, im a virgin and i REALLY want to score. but the thing is, im only in middle school so if i did, many balls would be flipped. a bunch of girls kinda like me but i would never use some one for sex. besides, i dont like them that much. im getting really crazy, and its like im a catholic priest cause ill just hump anything in sight and pretend that what im humping is emma watson or lindsay lohan. damn. anything i can do?
Hey Laci, I couldn’t find another way of contacting you, so here goes….
Dear Laci,
I am a 17 year old boy who still hasn’t lost his virginity. But it seems to me that women are getting to the point where they don’t want men at all. I’ve just been used by all the women I know, partially because I’m “too nice” or what not, but it seems with feminism going strong that the men of my generation, who have done nothing wrong, are being viewed differently. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for equality, but it seems like women want nothing to do with men right now, or at least with me. I’ve been told I look great, I’m not fat, I’m funny, but girls just don’t seem to want to go out with me, one even said it was only because I was a virgin. This kind of thing hurts my feelings, and I have no one I can talk to about it. All of my male friends will just tell me to suck it up, and I don’t want to sound whiny to any girls…. I just don’t know what to do. I’m afraid that if I go to college in the next year or two with my v-card still intact I will be viewed as weird, and the girls will think “if he hasn’t done it by now there must be something wrong with him” and stay as far away from me as possible. Along with this, I’m kind of scared about sex, I feel like if a vibrator would make the girl feel better, then if I really care about her I should just get her that and leave her alone, I’m really confused. I feel like I must have some sort of chick repellent built into me or something. I would almost feel better if I was out of shape, or ugly, because then I could at least blame it on something. As it is right now I feel very insecure and useless.
I apologize for the long letter, and I know you are busy, but any response would be greatly appreciated.
Your fan,
Dave
Hey you, I will attempt to answer your question and I hope I do not come across as harsh as I will attempt to be very honest ( and I don’t honey up the hard facts).
Hun, you are young and perhaps may not understand this yet, especially if you come from a loving home with great parents, but the world does not owe us things simply because we are fabulous. Problem is, girls and guys have this assumption that we should get whatever we desire as soon as we desire it and if we do not the world, and everything in it, sucks.
As much as we would love to rob people of their free will and make them do what we want we cannot. A girl has a right to choose, or not choose you. This doesn’t make her evil or hate men and it may not have anything to do with you at all.
When I first went on the dating scene I decided to not only wait to BE approached but to also approach men. I kept in mind that as a woman, I always hated when a guy could not take no for an answer and decided to respect a man’s right to say no.
With this approach I was able to meet some wonderful men–but not every one of them said yes.
I kept in mind that there could be 101 reasons why the man may not wish to date me. Some would tell me why (in between jobs, concentrating on college studies) others would not. I did not automatically assume it was because they were angry, gay or hated women.
Case in point–There were times I did not want to date for a number of reasons. One of them had to do with the fact that I had just got our of a bad relationship and just needed to breathe. There was even a point in my life where I became a “born again virgin” and dedicated three years to just working on what I wanted out of life. The decision was a great one cause shortly after I started dating again I met my husband. I was 35 years old when this happened.
Before you can even start dating you need to recognize that no one owes you a date just cause you want one. Nothing is life is owed to any of us. You also have to learn not to take rejection personally–there could be 101 reasons why a person says no. Lose the anger as well or you will become bitter and misogynistic which will really cut your chances for finding a mate down tremendously ( what person of any substance wants to be with an angry and bitter mate?)
Respect a person’s right to say no and move on–dating is a numbers game anyway–so keep asking and eventually someone will say yes.
And please do not start with the women do not like nice guys stuff–that is simply not true. Only idiotic immature girls want bad boys. Women of intellect and substance want guys like you so just be patient–it could take time to find her.
If you can’t learn to do these very important things, dating will only make you frustrated, angry and bitter due to unrealistic expectations and a sense that you should be handed everything you want just because.
Hey Laci,
Love your videos, they’re awesome and you’re awesome.
I just watched your bonus video “How To Find the Clitoris,” it’s pretty obvious that you know something about vibrators and I’m wondering if you can give me some sex toy advice.
When I eat pussy…(forgive me using improper terms, but I think it’s the most effective and efficient use of words. “Eating vagina” just sounds awkward. “Performing cunnilingus” isn’t quite right, because it’s a noun, which refers to the performer, and besides it sounds too clinical. “Performing oral sex” needs to be followed by “on a woman” to fully explain what’s being done and on whom. That’s way too many words. But “Eating pussy” describes what and on whom in just two words).
Anyhow, when I eat pussy I always try to add a bit of variety to my performance. Not necessarily with regards to tongue technique, but with regards to her experience as a whole. I like adding a little element of surprise to keep my routine from becoming predictable and boring. For example:
Sometimes we’ll do a little role playing.
Sometimes I’ll give her some analingus.
Sometimes I’ll lick her clean after I’ve made a deposit.
Sometimes I play a dice game with her. I have her roll two dice and the number that comes up is the number of times that she must orgasm, but the only ones that count are the ones she feeds me. In reality it doesn’t matter what number she rolls, because she will be eaten out for as long and as often as she desires.
Sometimes I’ll leave her panties on while I kiss, nibble, lick, worship and savor every inch of her body, from her fingertips to her lips and from her nose to her toes. As she ripens, I’ll suck her juice right through the fabric of her panties as it oozes out of her. Meanwhile, I’m secretly nibbling a starter hole. When she can no longer wait to be eaten, I’ll tear her panties apart at the crotch and feast on her juicy wet pussy. The best part is sending her home completely satisfied, but with soaked and shredded panties, or no panties at all.
Sometimes, between rounds of eating her out, I’ll attend to the various steps involved in giving her a luxurious salon quality pedicure.
Sometimes I’ll quietly eat her out while she on the phone. Sometimes she’s on the phone with her significant other.
Sometimes I eat her out in different places. Places where she’s never been eaten out before. Places she’d never expect to be eaten out. Places she has fantasized about being eaten out.
The idea is to keep her anticipating and wondering about her next time. I’m always trying to vary her experience and I’m always looking for new ideas. I’ve been thinking about incorporating a sex toy into my performance and that’s where I’d like your advice.
Is this a good idea?
Will she become desensitized or so accustomed to the toy that the only way she can achieve orgasm is with the vibrator? I’m not looking for a substitute to eating pussy, I enjoy eating pussy too much. I don’t want to compete with the vibrator, I just want to introduce something different that will supplement my performance and enhance her experience.
What toy should I get? Should I get something to stimulate her vagina while I’m licking her clit; or something to stimulate her clit while I’m tongue fucking her; or something to stimulate her ass while I’m eating her out; or something to stimulate her vagina and/or clit while my tongue is buried in her ass? I just came up with four new independent variations to performing oral sex on a women. Is there a toy suitable for all situations?
The toys I’ve seen at the local adult video store look cheap and junky. I’m willing to pay for something that’s going to last.
This will be my toy, not hers, which means I may use it to pleasure other women. So I want something that can be 100% sterilized.
I want something powerful, but not too powerful.
It should be waterproof.
Who should be in control of the toy, her or I? The length of the toy should accommodate the one controlling it. How long should it be?
Your feedback will be greatly appreciated, I’m eagerly looking forward to eating pussy whilst using a vibrator on my partner.
Thank you
Peter
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You’re 22 years old. I have t-shirts older than you. You know nothing of the world, and you’re too clueless to know that your fame is solely due to the fact that you’re a pretty young girl with nice tits who talks about sex. No one is reading for knowledge gain. They’re reading because it gets them off. Know that they vast majority of your fans are creepy old guys who can’t get laid. They’re all jerking off while looking at your pics.
You’re a child who’s barely old enough to be trusted with a can of beer. Take it down a notch. This will all make sense in about 10 years.
Let me get this straight?
Because Laci is young and pretty she should just shut up and sit down? Are you serious?
Laci probably won’t say this but I will–how dare you! Of all the misogynistic BS I have heard this tops them all. why do I have a feeling that if Laci was an unattractive 35 year old lady you’d still take exception with what she is saying because you probably dislike any sign of female empowerment, young or old, pretty or cow like.
FYI–Just because there may be pervs lurking around on here who want to look at a pretty chick doesn’t devalue what this young lady has to say about sex–especially if she is herself is sexually active.
But the problem with American men–hell, men in general–is that they want to define sex only in terms of their own expression and what they get out of it and women should just be happy a dude shows up with a penis in his hand.
Guess what–I am a 42 year old black female and I give a hearty amen to what Laci is saying, in fact, I have been saying it for years.
Women have the right to display and to define their own sexuality–all you have the right t to do is agree or not agree with their definitions.
But then, what I usually find is that men who are threatened by intelligent women are the ones who freak out at this show of courage, tell them to cover up and blame short skirts for some low life deciding to rape a chick. I wonder what excuse men like that use when a woman in a head to toe burka is raped–Oh I guess the sun glinted enticingly off her eyeball or something *rolls eyes*
Men are not three year old infants who cannot handle a little skin. And they certainly should be secure enough to allow women to set the boundaries on their own sexuality.
But I suppose with only 25 percent of the male population being able to give women the big “O” using their pee-pees, we can understand why CERTAIN men would feel the urge to suppress female sensuality–I mean–cuts down on embarrassing moments when men get to be in complete control doesn’t it…?
PS–you have 22 year old shirts? Dude nasty–throw those things away–LOL!
You tell him ! that is not only sexist but agist ! Someone young and beautiful AND FEMALE can be just as smart and wise as some old guy wearing 22 year old shirts sitting behind a computer feeling all big because he tried to put down a successful young woman. Dude get a grip
All I can say is girl do yo thang girl, do yo thang–I LOVE it–as a bi woman who creates erotic graphic novels ( as well as horror sci fi) I can tell you that most have no idea what sex positivity truly means. Spread the word beautiful!
i have a question…maybe a silly one about queefing. what causes it and how can i deal with it? my boyfriend and i were recently having sex and my vagina made this sound and it was really embarrassing. advice please?
Hey Laci, love the videos and how you introduce a lot of ethos and logos in them. Maybe you’ve done a video on this already or mildly touched on this subject, but how about a video about male birth control? I fint it so unfair that society seems to look in the direction of women to be responsble and take birth control. Furthermore, the same way birth control prevents unwanted births for women, wouldn’t it be great for men to have the same priviledge and not be knocking up so many women?
It’s just a thought, but thanks for listening.
PS, we’ve heard you rant mostly about Christianity, how about covering other religions like Islam and Judaism. I’m interested in your views.
Hi Lacey!! I just want to say I LOVE you and your videos. I don’t know what I’d do without your advice; they’ve helped me with so much!! :)
Anyways, I have an issue. I’m a 15 year old sophomore girl in high school and I still haven’t had my first kiss. :\ (I’m a virgin, yes.) I have experience with dating and I’ve almost kissed a boy before, but I chickened out. All of my friends have had their first kiss, and I feel ashamed and embarrassed because I haven’t even kissed a boy on the cheek!! :( Please help me, Laci. I really want to get over this fear. I’m scared that since all of the boys I know have plenty experience with kissing, if I kiss one of them I’m gonna mess up and not know what to do.
I was hoping you or someone else on here could give me some advice. I just need help on how to kiss (“french” kiss I guess you could call it) and how to get more out there and find a boyfriend. Thanks for all your help. Please respond!!
Laci,
I recently found you on youtube while searching the web on “good ways to ask out a stranger”. Your advice and blogs seem pretty cool so I’m gonna ask you. I havent had a chance to watch all of your vids so please send me a link if you have already covered this subject.
senario:
There is this totaly cute gal that works at the checkout lane at my local supermarket. Of course it is her job to be friendly to people and whenever I go threw her line we always have a smile and some small talk…really small talk, because there are always other customers behind me. I really want to ask her out but the timing never seems right with her being at work and all and I dont want to embarress her in front of people.
So if I am getting this vibe of her being a bit mor friendly to me and I can work up the courage to ask her out, what do you think would be a direct, friendly, fast, non pressure, non scene making way to do it???
The idea I had was next time I go threw her line just say “hey, what do you think about letting me take you out sometime so I can stop coming in here and buying a bunch of shit I dont really need just to get a chance to talk to you?” All with a nice smile and some sort of compliment.
Heyy :) ..your videos have been very helpful and I love your advice. I particularly like the one “she’s such a slut”. In relation to this, you should do a video on how you should be “respected” during sexual activity even if its being considered in society slutty? The main reason I don’t put myself out there is not only that I may be called a “slut” but also losing “respect”. I want to be sexually more experienced but don’t want the guy or other guys to lose respect from me? Do any other girls have these issues?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=ZzREJNUXt-I
Hey Laci!
I recently had an experience in which I was unsure how to react, and I thought that it might make an interesting topic for one of your videos.
I was biking in my university campus and a guy in a car stopped to me to ask for directions, and while I was giving them to him, I noticed that he had his penis out and it was hard! The second I noticed I stopped talking and looked at him directly in shock, and at that point he smiled at me and asked me if he could go home with me. The only thing I managed to do was say NO and hopped on my back and rode away. Luckily this happend in a street in which he could not follow me in his car, so he just turned around and left. At that point I felt safe, but completely stupid that I did not think to even look at his license plates. I felt mad about the fact that I couldn’t properly report him.
The next day a friend of mine told me she had had the same encounter half an hour before me in the same place. We reported him to security in campus, but of course, without his license plate, there’s not much they can do.
My question is this: How do you process this experience? I know it wasn’t my fault that it happend to me and I know that it was good to just walk away from the situation… But I guess what I’m trying to do here is understand this kind of behavior so that I can feel safer if it ever happens again. A friend told us that usually these people just pick one place for the day and then not come back to it, so that we shouldn’t worry about seeing him again… But still, I would like to better understand this type of behavior.
What do you think?
Thanks for reading this, I’m a big fan of your project!
Mariana.
Hey Laci!
I totally love your videos, they are very educative
But I’m concerned about your spirituality.
A true spiritual person does not have ego in his/her soul and they don’t hate anything: neither robbers, neither criminals, neither rapists, neither thieves, neither religion.
Live and let live.
Please make a video on this topic so your viewers may also be informed.
Thanks in advance!
Peace!
hey laci! loved your videos since i was like in year 6 aha, erm do you think you could do a video on anxiety? x
Hey Laci, I love your videos and opinions on things. I was just wondering if you could do a video on birth control and the different types of contraception. That would be wondrous and helpful to those who have questions about it. Thank you for making such helpful videos! (:
Hey,
I know people who read this are going to say things i already know, but maybe i just need to hear other people’s thoughts.
I am 20 years old. I haven’t had a period since April 23, 2012.
And the the time before that was Feb, 14, 2012.
I went the the doctor April 2 and i got blood work done. Everything was fine, I wasn’t pregnant. She said it’s normal for women to skip a cycle sometimes. I thought nothing of it. But now I’m not getting it again. I’m not stressed out, i don’t have anything else going on. I don’t believe that i am pregnant, i don’t really want to go out and spend more money on pregnancy tests. I’ve spent already too much money on them. I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want to go back to the doctor. All the things i read on google scare me also. I just need some advice and if anybody else has been going through something similar. Thanks so much!
Hey !
I just wanted to say thank you for your videos, because they helped me to grow up a little, to be more often about a lot of topics and to love me for what i am…. Your advices are really great and i love what you’re doing ! So please don’t stop !!! ( whatever stupid people say )
Thanks for your videos !!!!
Hi Laci,
I have just come across your website because of jenna anne twitting. Besides the point: I came out a lesbian about a year ago and I am completely content about it and really proud but there was still something missing. Something that I needed to figure out for myself not to categorize myself but to better understand myself as to why I’m feeling certain ways when things happen to me. So I came across your gender identity video and that hit a nerve and I am a girl and I was trying to figure out what I am because I don’t feel entirely a ”girl” but not a ”boy” either but definitely more on the boy side and I was wondering if you could clarify (not to be ignorant) but you are not automatically transgender if you feel this way. I am just a bit confused on the subject still. Thanks a million :) stay cool
Hey! I have a question.
So, I’ve been wondering if one’s boobs (particularly their nipples) will get bigger if they are “fondled” or sucked too often.
I know it seems like a “if your boyfriend touches your boobs will they grow” type of question, but I’ve been trying to search it up and I keep getting contradicting answers. Help?
Hey I watched your bisexual video and it still never cleared things up for me, I almost 17 and the bit about how you can like guys and girls but like Guys a little bit more or vice versa. I feel that way I tend to get crushes on guys but find girls attractive until I met this girl at a party (she is a lesbian) and we really hit it off, we had loads in common and found myself starting to like like her. But she got off with another girl, this girl I asked if she was bisexual or lesbian and she said neither she just liked to get off with girls when she was drunk. That made me wonder if I was just going through a phase or something ? But I have felt this way for a couple of years. I have no one to talk tothis about because everyone I know has this perception that if you bisexual you are only doing it for attention or you are denying being gay. I have a friend who is bisexual but mostly prefers boys and my mum tells me all the time that he is gay and in denial, so I can’t talk to her about it. I’ve never even kissed a girl and I’ve only kissed two boys (which I did not enjoy) so I am really confused. I’ve ranted too long so please can I have some advice ?
Hey, I just found your videos less than 30 minutes ago. I’ve got to say your awesome! Your funny, you know what your talking about, and you are so confident.
I’m going to keep watching your videos, maybe they’ll help me learn to love myself for who I am :)
Also I’ve been curious about the same sex for a while, so I’ll see how that goes.
I have a question. I’m a girl but I have little interest in sex. It’s not that I don’t have any interest, but it’s not important to me and it doesn’t cross my mind and when I do have sex – no matter who it is with – after a few minutes I’m not into it anymore. I mean, I feel almost nothing when it happens or sometimes I really want to have sex but my body doesn’t agree with me.
I’ve considered asexuality, but after looking into it I don’t think I am. I’m sexually attracted to people, but…sex…sometimes, it’s…a hassle. I was wondering if there is any reason for this or something I can do to work on it. I know my boyfriend is starting to probably think it has something to do with him, but I know it’s not.
“I’m a girl but I have little interest in sex.”
I thought it was normal for girls to have little interest in sex.
Or maybe it’s just boring for you, spice it up somehow!
One night I went to my local variety store to pick up the latest porn magazine, after doing so I took a short-cut home through an alleyway. As I made my way through I was looking at the magazine and couldn’t wait to get home. I started jerking off right there and suddenly these 3 black guys came out of nowhere and had their way(sexually) with me. After they were done I really didn’t feel like jerking off anymore so I just went home. It was an interesting experience however, and I look forward to it in the future.
I love Detroit!
What do you do if you’re scared to have people see the past you? I have a problem with depression, and I have scars all over. =s I don’t like being judged by others. How do I deal with this?
laicgreen I miss your vids on youtube I don’t know what your going through right now I just wanted to let you know that me as one of your fans realy do miss you, your vids tought me so much about myself about how I look at my body that I dont need to look likea barbie doll to be beautiful just the way I am is enough. same with my sexuality I know now I dont have to choses right away and that I dont have to desied because outhers might look down on me.
so i just came here to tell you i miss you and i thank you.
I have a question, Im attracted to most girls personalities but not very attracted sexualy. With guys its the opposite… got any tips to make or anything to say to make it work better? am i bisexual?
What is the average number of orgasms a women has during sex? Is it normal to have….say 30???…because I kinda just did. Just curious.
Hey Laci,
You’re videos are great but something I’m pretty sure you haven’t touched on is the topic of romantic versus sexual attraction. I know some gay men who are confused about their sexuality because they are in love with a woman, but only attracted to men, and therefore believe they are not gay, which isn’t the reality of the situation.
Also, going along with this topic, define the difference between loving someone and loving the IDEA of being with someone, for the sake of your social or sexual status (i.e. a gay man may force himself to believe he wants to be with a woman in order to convince himself and others that he’s straight until he sees her naked in the bedroom.)
It would be nice if you were to clear this up for some of your viewers who may be going through the same issue.
50 Shades of Grey is one of those things that makes me Hulk up with anger.
If you’re interested in a recap of 50 Shades of Grey where a pro erotic novelist basically rips the book apart with words this is a great blog:
http://jenniferarmintrout.blogspot.com/p/jen-reads-50-shades-of-grey.html?zx=4c633c6742b8f731
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Hey Laci, I really need your advice please help ><
I have fallen for my girl best friend, even though we've only spent 1 year and 2 months together as being friends, I have already confessed to her that I like her a while ago. We have also shared a good amount of memories, experiences and deep secrets together, such as during the time when she broke up with her ex boyfriend I was there trying to comfort her no matter how late we stay up at night, I've tried my very best to make her at least smile and laugh once a day, I wish her goodmorning/night everyday, she has cried in front of me already due to the break up, so like any other person would do is to comfort them right? I've soo visited her a number of times already especially during the time when she was really ill. She also says that she misses me a good amount of times already, she also said that she's starting to fall for me. During the time we spent together we also shared our very first kiss. I've given all my very best effort just to make her happy and ease the pain she had during her break up. But then during this past week she has started to talk to another guy (who is her friend but also her ex's bestfriend) she already had a crush on him a while ago but i didn't mind it, however she began to ignore me and everything I do for her such as everytime I text her just to see how her day went etc, she does text back after a good amount of hours but I have noticed that she has putting no effort on her texts, but we do facetime and i see her giving her biggest effort on her text with that other guy by jsut looking at her smile, I then over heard her say that she is started to fall for him.
So im completely confused right now, was everything she told me was a lie? should i leave her? should i just stay there and back down? She also has had really bad past, where we vowed not to leave each other ever which i didn't mind at all. But then again I am completely torn apart right now, please could give me some advice on this situation, I'm sorry that this is a long message too..
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
I’ve been watching your videos, and girl do i have to say they help big time! But, my boyfriend cannot last over 30 seconds and i last longer but after he gets off he wont help me and im left hanging. what do i do? ive tried talking to him about it and it doesnt work. i need your advice!!
Atheism was destroyed by 2 points
1- when the atheists become leaders they kill millions
Adolf Hitler { Atheist } : Killed 40 million Human
Joseph Stalin { Atheist } : Killed 20 million Human
Vladimir Lenin { Atheist } Killed 200,000 Human
Mao Tse Tung { Atheist } Killed 50 million Human
Kim Il-sung { Atheist } : Killed 4 million Human
Pol Pot – Cambodia Leader { Atheist }: Killed 2 million Human
Fidel Castro { Atheist }: Killed 1 million Human
and that not because they were communists .. because communism is a political and economic system , to make justice between the rich and the poor ..etc .. it didn’t contain any base that you have to kill some millions or your people to became a true communist ..
Actually they made all this killing because they didn’t fear from anything ( God or judgment day .. ) so they start to kill millions
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2- killing the children is Allowed in Atheism , because atheism didn’t contain any basics or ethics or forbidden things
every crime or rape or killing is allowed in atheism too !!