Sex+ Questionnaire! – Blank Versions

Sex+ Questionnaire For:
Age:
Sex:
Location:

Sexual Awakenings

1. How did you learn about sex?

2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?

3. Do you remember your first kiss?

4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.

5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?

Relationships

6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?

7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?

8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?

9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?

10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?

11. What do you look for in a partner?

12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?

Sexploration

13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?

14. What is your favorite position?

15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?

16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?

17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?

18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?

19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?

20. Would you/have you done role-play?

21. What is your biggest turn on?

22. Biggest turn off?

23. How often do you masturbate?

24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?

Self Love

25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?

26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?

27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.

28. How do you take care of yourself?

Hot Topics

29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?

30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?

31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?

32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?

33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?

To Infinity, and Beyond

34. What do you want to be when you grow up?

35. Do you want to get married?

36. Do you want to have children?

37. What do you want to do for others before you die?

–without numbers if you want to edit it–

Sex+ Questionnaire for:
Age:
Sex:
Location:

Sexual Awakenings

How did you learn about sex?

Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?

Do you remember your first kiss?

Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.

How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?

Relationships

Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?

Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?

Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?

Have you ever cheated on a partner?

What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?

What do you look for in a partner?

Do you have any “deal breakers”?

Sexploration

What is your favorite way to ask for consent?

What is your favorite position?

Would you/have you had a one night stand?

What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?

Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?

Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?

Would you/have you practiced BDSM?

Would you/have you done role-play?

What is your biggest turn on?

Biggest turn off?

How often do you masturbate?

What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?

Self Love

What’s your favorite thing about yourself?

What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?

Tell us one goal you have for yourself.

How do you take care of yourself?

Hot Topics

Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?

Do you think prostitution should be legal?

If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?

Should same-sex marriage be legal?

Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?

To Infinity, and Beyond

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Do you want to get married?

Do you want to have children?

What do you want to do for others before you die?

33 thoughts on “Sex+ Questionnaire! – Blank Versions

  1. Sex+ Questionnaire For:Jurassicrabbit
    Age:29
    Sex:M
    Location:New Jersey

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Porno Mag found in recycling center, older friends, late night cable.
    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    No
    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Somewhat, GF in junior year of high school.
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    NA
    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    NA
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    No
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Currently I think I’d rather be in a relationship. But my lack of experience hinders me in social situations.
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I don’t think I could handle it. Too much potential for drama.
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No.
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    3 months, 24 hours
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Someone who is not too serious, needy, or plays games.
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Being overly religious.
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    May I um…if you’d like we could um…*passes out*
    14. What is your favorite position?
    Defense or goalie. Goalie requires waaay too much equipment though.
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    No.
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Around the waist.
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    A bit.
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    No.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    No
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    World of Warcraft, Mass Effect, count?
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    When she laughs. (right context I suppose)
    22. Biggest turn off?
    When she laughs. (wrong context)
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Just about oh oh….aaaaaaaaah daily.
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    Um…not sure honestly.
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    Height
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Lost 138 pounds through pure determination and no stupid programs or diets.
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Me a nice lady
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Eat decently, excercise regularly
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yup
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Sticky wicket, but I would say yes as long as it’s regulated properly to protect all parties involved.
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    Dear Spaghetti monster no. If he wants to do that later in life it will be his choice.
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yup
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive sex education seems like a better plan.
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I’m not sure…when are you officially grown up crap…
    35. Do you want to get married?
    Possibly…
    36. Do you want to have children?
    They could be in the cards…
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Give them good memories.

  2. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 19
    Sex: female
    Location: texas

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    I feel like I’ve aways known about it but I have received most of my knowledge from school, friends and my mom.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Yes. Actually I find it odd when my friends tell me that they can’t talk to their partners about sex but are fully capable of having sex with them. I feel like its just something that has to be done.
    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yeah. It sucked, I wish I waited for someone I actually liked and
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Condom slid off and even though I knew what had happened he freaked the fuck out because he had no idea where it went

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    17 yes.
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Yep, both.
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I like being single because I can flirt with people without having to worry about leading people on or making someone jealous but I like the stability and support of a relationship
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Yes but I doubt I will ever have the ovaries to go for it.
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Nope :)
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    1 year and 4 months shortest was 4 months
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Kind, funny, smart, passionate about something, sexual compatibility, similar beliefs but theres some wiggle room and likes pets.
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Smokers (I’m asthmatic it won’t work), ignorance, poor hygiene, douche baggery syndrom.
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    “Sex?” Whats wrong with being blunt about it?
    14. What is your favorite position?
    None have really stood out all that much for me
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Haven’t had one and probably never will
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Hips, butt, clit, legs, back, hair
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Some BDSM my sex life thus far has been to vanilla, also maybe with a girl and possibly something super messy when I get my on place, like with body paints.
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    Never have. I am interested in it but I don’t know if I would feel comfortable in a real situation like that.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Not yet. I hope to try some at least mild BDSM play though
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Sadly no, none of my partners have ever been able to take it seriously
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Hands against my skull, pulling lightly on my hair as my partner kisses me
    22. Biggest turn off?
    Choking. I get panic attacks form people or objects even lightly touching my neck. If you try to choke me I will attempt to rip out your eyes in self defense.
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Not often enough but I’ve been meaning to fix that.
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    I’ve always been fond of my legs. Especially in skirts
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    More self aware than the average person and I’m a pretty okay artist too.
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Finally decided what I want to major in (I have problems making decisions so thats pretty huge)
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Make more close friends, get more involved in a community
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Reading, my tens unit, taking long showers
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Only if its regulated
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)? No

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    A psychologist and owner of a world class home library (book space will be more important than living space.
    35. Do you want to get married?
    I guess, but only because of the legal benefits
    36. Do you want to have children?
    No and if I end up changing my mind they will NOT be mine biologically I do not want to give birth I would rather fight through the adoption processes
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Leave a lesser scar.

    • Fail on question 2 I thought it said partners not parents.
      When it comes to STD’s and birth control yes I can. When it comes to me having partners no I can’t.

  3. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Me!
    Age: 16
    Sex: female
    Location: Texas

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    I don’t specifically remember. Lots of places. I know I had period books and preteen girl books to teach me about my body. Though, from the time I was very young I was interested in sexuality.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    My mom, definitely. My dad, not really, though I’ve never really needed to. I’ve never needed to learn much from my mom either, but I can talk to her about anything.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    I sure do! It only happened 2 years ago..

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Hm well, the only thing that comes to mind is being 14 and having my first kiss with an 18 year old who had to guide me along. He was great though.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I’ve not made my sexual debut yet. But I know I am ready, once I find a guy worthy.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Kind of.. it’s “complicated”

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    If there is not a guy who I like enough to want to cut off my options with every other guy, then I’m going to stay single. But a guy who makes me lose interest for other guys would definitely be worth being in an exclusive relationship for.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Consider? For a few minutes maybe.. After that probably not

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    My most serious relationships have been unofficial, therefore I didn’t really have any boundaries, but even then I didn’t do any cheating.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    I’m only 16, so I haven’t had many boyfriends yet. The guys and relationships which have meant the most to me haven’t had any specific time markers put on them.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    I look for someone who is kind of like me. Has the same values and needs as me and whom I’m able to talk to and feel comfortable with.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    My guy must be pretty near my intellectual level, and my attraction to him matters, though obviously my opinion of one’s appearance is subject to change depending on how I feel about them. No religionaholics either.

    Sexploration

    This will be an “if you had had sex then…” section

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    If it’s with a partner then I’d prefer for the relationship and our feelings to take us there with out us having to directly ask for consent. Talking about it is fine though.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Haha I’ll have to try them all and then get back to you

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    I would if it was under good conditions

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    All over? yes please. Hair, neck, clit, nipples, sides, thighs…

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Everything:)

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I would eventually

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    I would like to try some low key BDSM, like blindfolds and tying up hands

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Role play doesn’t sound too hot to me

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Big men. Not globs of fat big, but tall and muscular or husky
    Strong hands taking control of me

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Very skinny guys, extremely hairy, and anything that I find emotionally unattractive.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Some weeks every day or multiple times a day, some weeks only once or twice

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    Well my breasts and vagina I suppose. Haha predictable answer

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I’m pretty lucky because I love most things about me. I’m very secure with myself and I’m very conscience of my own feelings and the feelings of others around me.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    I haven’t accomplished anything tangible in the past 3 years important enough to stand out in my mind. I suppose I’m proud of myself for learning everything about myself and people in general and realizing what some of my interests and areas of focus are for the years ahead of me.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    I need more self discipline when it comes to work and other obligations that I have. I really hope I can achieve that discipline in my time remaining before college. Of course getting in to college in the first place is another goal..

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I take very good care of my body. I learn everything I can about my body and I give myself acceptance and love

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    I think any one should be able to do anything they want to their body no matter what the circumstances. If it doesn’t greatly affect my life then what business do I have telling anyone else what to do.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yeah! Just don’t go spreading STD’s and STI’s everywhere and I’m happy.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No! I don’t subscribe to any religion, and since religion is the reason for circumcision in the first place, I absolutely will not rid him of part of his body simply so it’s easier for him to “keep clean”

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yeah man! Again, as long as it doesn’t make my life any worse I don’t care! Why shouldn’t they have the same rights as straight couples?
    *cough* religion *cough*

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Healthy sexual decision making should be taught. Sex education most definitely, as well as some guidance as to how to make sexual decisions when there isn’t a rule like abstinence to tie you down.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I’m a practical person and making a decent living is something that is important to me, so at this point I’m hoping to pursue some sort of accounting or financial career while having plenty of sexuality and sociology and every other topic related to the two research on the side.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    I do. I just hope I find someone who I want to get married to

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Yes, when I’m able to support them and give them the education they need.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I don’t think I will be curing cancer or stopping wars any time in my life, but what I can do is show love to everyone who I meet and to try to help anyone in any way I can.

  4. Sex+ Questionnaire for: Danielle
    Age: 18
    Sex: F
    Location: Ireland

    Sexual Awakenings

    How did you learn about sex?
    Mostly through experience and the internet

    Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    I could but i didn’t. They gave me books instead

    Do you remember your first kiss?
    It wasn’t the most amazing experience in truth or dare…

    Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc. Having to pretend to enjoy sex

    How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    17 and yes :)
    Relationships

    Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Indeed, both :)

    Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    It depends who the person is and how comfortable I am with myself. At the moment a relationship because it’s nice always having someone there.

    Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    For sexual reasons but it wouldn’t be my cup of tea

    Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    yes, once but it made me realise how selfish it is and how important it is to really like your partner rather than be with them for the sake of things.

    What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest-7months Shortest- a few weeks

    What do you look for in a partner?
    Someone who is patient with me ( im a bit of a comitaphobe :s), comfortable with themselves, kind and friendly towards everyone, honest, considerate and sensitive, sensible, sweet, thoughtful, has manners and not a push over ( i am a bit of a handful )

    Do you have any “deal breakers”? Yes but very few. If someone is fake, inconsiderate, rude or impolite towards anyone.

    Sexploration

    What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    slowly taking off their clothes and then asking if they have a condom

    What is your favorite position?
    hmm i like variety..more exciting

    Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    No but sure God only knows

    What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Legs, breasts and neck

    Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    A lot but i am only new to this anyway :)

    Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    sure

    Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    yep

    Would you/have you done role-play?
    yeah

    What is your biggest turn on?
    Hickeys

    Biggest turn off?
    excess hair, no eye contact or drool

    How often do you masturbate?
    rarely but im more open to it now

    What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    legs

    Self Love

    What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My ability to make genuine friends with almost anyone

    What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    becoming more motivated driven and aware of what i want

    Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To find a career i love while doing the sports i love

    How do you take care of yourself?
    I take time out when i feel overwhelmed and listen to my favorite music (taylor swift) or i do exercise

    Hot Topics

    Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? of course

    Do you think prostitution should be legal? why not

    If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    no, it is just wrong

    Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    yes

    Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only? sex ed because it’s going to happen some way or another eventually.
    I think it would help if it was an outside person as students would be more inclined to discuss personal problems or curiosities.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    What do you want to be when you grow up?
    A dentist but realistically some form of psychologist

    Do you want to get married?
    Hopefully but i would rather not if it ends in divorce

    Do you want to have children?
    yes

    What do you want to do for others before you die?
    help them to achieve their full potential and overcome problems

  5. (I’m only posting this here because I can no longer comment on the original post! I hope you still see this, Laci!)
    Sex+ Questionnaire For: Ashley
    Age: 23
    Sex: Female
    Location: California

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Through school teachings, though they were minor and often not taken very seriously because of the squabble of giggling children or immature high schoolers.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Not comfortably, especially when I was younger. My sisters and I are pretty shy when it comes to any sort of personal talks, so it wasn’t something we normally brought up.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes, and I actually regret it! I felt like I was saving it for this guy I was crushing on forever. I had my first kiss at the ripe old age of 17. It was in October of my Junior year in High School, a few days after my birthday and about a day before Halloween. A few friends dropped by my seasonal food vending stand at a local corn maze, asking if I wanted to join them on their way to a Halloween party. After my shift I followed my friends, along with this strange new boy that was hanging out with them. At the party I quickly realized this boy and I were the only ones who weren’t dressed up, so we stuck together munching on Candy Corn and talking about everyone’s costumes. Later on we decided to go use the dance floor with everyone else so we wouldn’t be left out, and went to dance with one another. After a while we decided we should leave the party (really just because we weren’t dressed for the occasion and felt left out still), and after some chit chat I found out we lived fairly close to one another. We went to a park in between our houses and hung out on the playground for a while until it became too cold to be outside anymore. We went back to his car, talked for a while, then out of no where he pulled me in close and kissed me. I had no idea what I was doing, I felt silly, and didn’t do much back. I felt horrible for giving up my first kiss to a guy I had just met, it was not the best thing to have ever happened to me.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    There have been a few times where some rather unpleasant sounds have been made when in the act, one in particular with my current boyfriend. We were getting in to it and after a few moments of quick, heated moments, we moved to switch positions and a rather loud fart came out of no where. Thankfully he’s a nurse and deals with things like that on a daily basis so he didn’t care! I sure did, though!

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I was 18, and I honestly don’t think I was ready for it, even after a few months of seeing the same guy. I was comfortable enough for an intimate relationship with one person, but not to give myself fully to him.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    More so romantic, but sexual as well, yes.

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I would much rather prefer being in a relationship to being single. Its the bonus of having someone to rely on and talk to at any given time, added on to the already close relationship that really gets me.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    After researching the topic after Laci’s video, I admire those that do so but don’t think it would be the right thing for me. To me, it would seem a bit like cheating, even if everyone was consensual with the situation. I adore giving my boyfriend my undivided attention, and would feel horrible not doing that for him…even if it was with someone I felt equal feelings for.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No, and I don’t think I ever will. It simply doesn’t make sense to do that to anyone. If you love someone, be faithful to them. If you’re unhappy for whatever reason and consider cheating, then there is nothing keeping you in your current relationship.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    My shortest relationship was around three months, even though by his terms we weren’t officially “dating” (come to find out he didn’t want to fully be with me, he wanted to be with someone else entirely but still have me around. BOO). My longest relationship is my current one, a year and seven months.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Honesty, integrity, passion for their future, a good sense of humor, love of fitness and a healthy lifestyle….to name a few in no particular order.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Negative lifestyle (unhealthy habits i.e. smoking, excessive drinking, drug use), disrespect, controlling nature, lack of desire to have a career or any solid future plans….

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    I’ve only done so a couple times, not very “suave” per say…one particular encounter was probably my only “suave” moment, in which I was chatting with a guy for a good portion of an evening and asked him if he had anyone to go home to. When he said no, I asked if he wanted me to go with him.
    That’s probably not exactly what this question was asking, more so dealing with “How do you ask them”….in which case I would simply ask them “Is this okay?”

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Cowgirl!

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Yes, even though that wasn’t either of our intentions.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    The back of my neck.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    There is a whole list of things, which I sent my partner one day when I was particularly lonely. He happily replied that we could try them, but we haven’t tried any yet!

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    An ex asked if we could do this, he even listed a few people he would like to do this with (close friends of ours). It weirded me out too much to become intimate with other people, especially women. Though I’m not opposed to it, I think my partner and I would have to have a serious conversation about it in order to consider it. I’ve heard a few accounts of people who have hired a “professional” to be the third + so they wouldn’t have that uncomfortable feeling with people they knew…that might be interesting.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    I have not practiced it, but I have read up on it. I have a few friends who openly speak about doing so, hence why it piqued my interest. My partner doesn’t really understand the BDSM culture so he might be a bit hesitant to read up on it as well.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    I have done role-play, it was very tongue-in-cheek and not very creative (I did most of the role-playing, boo).

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Taking control in a loving, respectful way (in the bedroom) and honesty with open communication (both in and out of the bedroom).

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Rudeness / disrespect towards others.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    A few times a month, not very often.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    Lower back, I don’t know why but I totally think so!

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My eyes, if a physical feature was what you’re looking for. Or, my ability to question things and get curious about others, for mental stuff.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Getting a promotion at work (even though I don’t work there anymore).

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Finish school within the next couple of years / get a job at an School for kids with Autism.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I eat healthy (most of the time), work out when I can and have a positive attitude.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes, especially if it is early on, ESPECIALLY if it was the result of rape.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Legal if only to protect the women, allowing them some sense of security and rights that go along with their business. Anything to ensure they are safe in every possible way that cannot be promised when it is illegal.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    I would leave that up to the Father, as they would be able to relate.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes, equality is the decent thing to do.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Education is key in preventing unwanted pregnancy and other health issues that go along with sex. If there is awareness, people might think twice about what they get themselves in to. Abstinence can work for those that will honor the practice, but only them.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I want to either be a teacher in grade school or work at a center for children / people with Autism.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Yes!

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Eventually, but not for a long time. I see myself getting married within the next 3 to 5 years, and when that happens, I plan on being a wife and furthering my career above all things.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I want to teach people to be kind to one another and to ensure they make the best possible decisions for themselves at any given moment.

  6. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Dan
    Age: 20
    Sex: Male
    Location: Missouri

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Mostly from my friends, with some help from the wonder that is the internet.
    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Nope. Not at all.
    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yep. My at the time boyfriend and I where having a tickle fight when he kissed me. :)
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    I came out as gay to a friend who had been getting jealous because he thought I was flirting with his girlfriend.
    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I haven’t yet.
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Not at the moment.
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I would prefer to be in a relationship. It’s nice to have someone be there, and to be that close with someone.
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Depending on the other people involved, yes I would. I don’t think it’s likely for me though.
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No.
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Both: Six months.
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    I look for someone I can have fun with, who can make me laugh, and who I can really talk to. And hopefully he would like cuddling as much as I do.
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    If they don’t seem trust worthy mostly. Being overly religious has the potential to be a deal breaker, though I can handle a little bit. I hate alcohol, though I think it is a personal choice. So, if he drinks much, he should understand to not come near me until he is sober and has showered.
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Asking explicitly and vocally. Like asking, “Is this okay?” and “Can I…?”
    14. What is your favorite position?
    For making out, laying down with my partner on top of me. I like to feel his heat and weight. For sex, I don’t know yet.
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    No, I’m a very physically affectionate person. It’s hard for me to separate touch and emotion.
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    My hair and there’s a spot on my sides that my ex found (I’m so glad he did) that shoots tingles all over my body.
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Lots of things.
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I could see it happening, under the right circumstances.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Yes, I would. I want to try it.
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Yes.
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    A little forcefulness and confidence.
    22. Biggest turn off?
    Probably the smell of alcohol.
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Pretty much daily.
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My abdomen, I guess.
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My wit, and my friendliness.
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Getting into my top choice university.
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Become a teacher.
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I buy myself treats sometimes. Books and favorite foods mostly.
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes. It doesn’t even have to be an accident. She has the right to change her mind. It’s her body.
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes. It would be better legalized and regulated.
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No. That’s horrible. I’m so glad my Dad shares that opinion.
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Fuck yes! Equal rights for all.
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive, hands down.
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    A teacher, and an awesome dad.
    35. Do you want to get married?
    Yes. I hope it becomes legal in my state, but I’m probably going to have to move.
    36. Do you want to have children?
    Yes! I love kids.
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Make them feel loved and special.

  7. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Minah
    Age: 17
    Sex: Female
    Location: Maine

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    My first exposure to sex was when I was at my friend’s house and we saw her dad’s porn dvds sitting on a coffee table… I learned a lot from the (very graphic) cover, but I learned the rest from sex-ed and later through participating in it.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Not with my dad, but my mom is very open.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes, very clearly because it wasn’t all that long ago. My first “peck” was after our first date on a bench outside a movie theater… His nose poked my eye, and it was quite awkward but nice. The kiss we call our actual first kiss…. It still gives me butterflies.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    I haven’t had any particularly embarrassing moments yet.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I was 15, and I was very ready.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Yes. It’s my first serious relationship, and we’ve been together for a year and 9 months. :)

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I prefer being in a relationship because I enjoy the close bond that comes from emotional and sexual intimacy. It’s very difficult to simulate that connection through fantasies for me, so being single is tough.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I don’t think I would, but I’d be open to swinging later on if my boyfriend would also want to.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    This one is my longest (1 year 9 months and counting). My shortest one was juvenile… 4 months in 6th grade. I don’t think it counts.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Maturity, compatible interests and personality, kindness, respect, openness, honesty, expressiveness, etc.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Honestly, I don’t think I could ever date anyone who isn’t Korean. It may sound like a weird fetish, but if someone didn’t know Korean, didn’t listen to Korean music, didn’t know anything about Korea, and didn’t care about Korea, I wouldn’t have much in common with him… And I need to have a lot in common with a prospective partner.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Asking if he’d want to ____. I like to be direct.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Lying with my stomach flat on the bed with him lying over me from behind. I like to feel constricted.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    No and no.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    My sides/back.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    I’ve wanted to try some sort of anal stimulation, but he’s still warming up to the idea of it all.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I would if I knew everyone and felt comfortable, but only if the others were all male.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Yes/not yet.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Yes/not yet.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Being dominated and feeling his erection against my body.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Spitting and someone who lies still.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    3 or 4 times a week.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My eyes.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My well-roundedness and ability to think critically.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Placing second in an international Korean speech competition (and being the only non-Korean ever to have participated!).

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To earn a PhD in linguistics.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I try not to let negativity get the better of me, and I make sure to balance work with rest.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes, fully.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    I haven’t educated myself very much on the debate, but I think it would make it much easier to regulate the business and make it safer for everyone involved, so a tentative yes.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    NO! Never. He can make that decision when he’s an adult if he wants to.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Is this even a question? Comprehensive.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    Some sort of language expert (teacher, researcher, professor…? I don’t know yet).

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Yes, but I don’t want any religious rituals to taint my wedding…

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Yes.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I want to spread knowledge, common sense, and unbiased, critical thinking because I’m sick of the amount of acquiescence in the world.

  8. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Michael
    Age: 16
    Sex: M
    Location: Virginia, US

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Through my friends
    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Nope
    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Me and my girlfriend at the time were getting a little handsy when her mom walked in on us
    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    Still a virgin, I’m not ready yet
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    No
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I have the longing to be in a relationship as it’s been about 6 months since my last relationship, but I tend to do better on my own.
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I would consider it, given the right circumstances
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Never have I ever
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Only 2 months, 3 days(she was so wrong for me)
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Similar taste in music to mine, able to understand me when I speak (I use odd words sometimes) or at least not criticize me all the time about it, A good sense of humor and I can get along with. It also helps if she’s not a complete dingus like me xD
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Cheating. If you want to date someone else and don’t have the common decency to break things off with my first you’ve lost all respect and trust you’ll ever get from me.
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Haven’t been down that road yet xD
    14. What is your favorite position?
    Left Field
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Not at this point in my life
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    on my shoulder/neck or my back, not so much in a sexual way, as just I like it when we’re holding each other or such.
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Actual sex. I’ve desired it in a few past relationships but they never excelled enough for us to get to that point
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    Depends on the circumstance and how I felt about it, it’s about a 99% chance to be no, since I’d like it to be a little more personal, 1 on 1(that’s just personal preference, there’s nothing wrong with a group)
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Maybe if my partner was into it, I’d be okay with her, on myself not so much.
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    I probably would
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    That classic sexy shower scene
    22. Biggest turn off?
    Anything coming out of the body not exactly sexually (i.e. throwing up, things of that nature)
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    It varies, anywhere from once a day to once a week. It really helps get rid of stress
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    You mean besides my manhood? haha, I’m not sure, maybe my face, just the way it’s shaped and all.
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My Individuality
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Getting and maintaining my first job at 15
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To find love
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Keeping myself clean shaven(not just talking about my face), always being sure to keep myself clean. I need to exercise more though.
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    100%
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    I don’t see the harm in it, unless it’s forced prostitution, which is a different subject entirely, so yes, I feel it should be
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No, I don’t want to take that from him, He should have the right to decide, I didn’t.
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    COMPLETELY, 100% YES
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive, If you’re ready, you shouldn’t be forced to wait.
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I’d love to be a professional musician, but more realistically I’ll probably be a webmaster.
    35. Do you want to get married?
    Yes
    36. Do you want to have children?
    No, Kids are alright, but I don’t think I could handle the responsibility
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Give them a lighter, less hateful view of the world, the way I see things.

  9. Sex+ Questionnaire For: MissKtana, Meeeeee!
    Age: 22(23 in May)
    Sex:Female
    Location: Canada :)

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex? …I was bffs with a…promiscuous and very young teen(13, no joke) and we got baked and watched a porn together…One of the chicks in it sounded like a goat and we ran around the house bleating and laughing our asses off…So, porn…unfortunatly lol

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? My dad, no. No girl or father wants to even hear that word in the same room. My dad freaked when he noticed I was growing boobs. lol…My mom was pretty cool about it. Although, I never asked. I had my Mistress of Slutty best friend(who’s favorite quote was “I may be a slut, but at least I can admit it!”)

    3. Do you remember your first kiss? 0_o Unfortunately…I was drunk and stoned and he was fish-lipped and sloppy. We were camping (in a tent with above friend nothing severe happened) and he and I both woke up considering the other a Coyote Ugly moment.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc. xD My ex was going down on me and I knew it was going to happen and he got SOOO mad and embarrassed and I just laughed and told him my girl was obviously enjoying herself. I queefed in his mouth, it wasn’t on purpose it just happened…Woops :D

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it? 16 and no. Regardless, my 26 year old bf didn’t want to wait and pressured me into it…I did end up enjoying it and being thankful the whole virginity thing was over with and I could move on.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? Both :) My bf and I are romantic and sexually involved with each other!

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why? Relationship. That sense of security and love that you get from another person (even after being together 3 years) is really indescribable.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? YES! I want a gf, but he says he doesn’t want a 3-some cuz he’d feel like if he fucked her he’d be cheating on me and that’s sweet and all…but I’m a lesbian who fell in love with a man xD

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? No. Death before dishonor.(personal)

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest? So far this one that I’m in now has been the longest. My shorted was a school one that lasted through a school day xD

    11. What do you look for in a partner? Sensitivity, understanding, patience, a sense of humor, the ability to communicate, beautiful eyes, cuddly and trust worthy.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”? Anything that could end up being defined as betrayal. Racism (I’m white but my grandfather is black), overly religious(as I’m Wiccan a Christian boy wouldn’t work), homo-phobic, arrogant/smug, self righteous…you know…flaws xD

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent? I’ve been in a relationship with my Doomkin for 3 years now…I ask by rolling on top of him and saying “Heeeeey ;)” his…answer is usually quick and hard lol

    14. What is your favorite position? DOGGY! It hits ALL the right buttons! I literally orgasm after about 10-20 seconds in Doggy!

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand? No, I don’t judge those who do, but it’s not something for me :)

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner? My neck! I have a very sensitive neck, and lower back…BUT DON’T TOUCH MY TOES!!!!

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?…A sex swing. Just about everything I’ve wanted to try, I have :)

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)? Yes I have. I would again. I love women! And my bf needs the experience ;)

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM? Yes!!! I own a ball-gag(purple xD), intimacy rope(doesn’t chafe), billions of stockings, corsets…And I’m a sub!

    20. Would you/have you done role-play? Yes in and out of the bedroom.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    When it comes as a surprise. Such as, when he snuggles up behind me, kisses my ear and neck and rubs his hard on against me…-drrrooool-

    22. Biggest turn off? Being expected to have sex/planned sex…I hate feeling like I *have to*. “Hey, we should fuck” really fucking bothers me.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    0_o Can I count that out and get back to you xD I don’t know…Anywhere from 5-10 times a week…ish?

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    I have amazing boobs. I really do. They’re big, but they’re perky and soft and pale and pretty. I love them so much it disturbs people :D

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? I am strong, honest(to a fault and a bit to brash), I know my faults and I work on them. I stay true to myself despite what everyone around me has against that and I know that inside I will always be that little goth girl who everyone either hated or loved.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years? Self improvement. I’ve had a…hard life, to say the least. You couldn’t even imagine some of the shit I’ve suffered through. And it’s left some pretty big black scars…I’ve spent a lot of time over the last year working on my problems, my anger, my trust issues and my depression. I’m only now getting the help I’ve needed and I feel amazing in my skin because of it :)

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself. I want to start a Pet Sitting Business. I love animals, but don’t have the ability to control my emotions enough to be a vet, but I’m really good with other peoples pets and I wouldn’t have to deal with the person all that often xD

    28. How do you take care of yourself? I have a routine. Every morning I wake up, wash my face and then make myself something super healthy to eat (Egg white and turkey bacon on whole grain anyone?), then I brush my teeth. Then I work out, guzzle tonnes of water and depending on the day have a bath (shower…I shower after I bathe…). I eat healthy, I work out, I play video games, I ground myself, I do yoga, I meditate….And sometimes I go hang out with my friends and GM a D&D game xD

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    As a woman who accidentally got pregnant and had an abortion at 20…Yes I absolutely support them. I know what kind of life an accidental child lives. I suffered through it. I wouldn’t wish it on my arch-nemesis.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes! Those women have been around longer then women wearing pants! I also wish it didn’t have to be necessary, but if it’s legal then they can be treated properly, like the human beings they are, and have things like health care and protection.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    I’m adopting a girl. No ifs.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    You’re damn rights it should be!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Gaaaah! SEX EDUCATION ALL THE WAY!

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    >_> I wanted to be a Guardian Angel…No joke.
    I now want to be a well reputed Pet Sitter.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Maybe one day, but not yet.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    I want to adopt. There are too many orphans in the world and people keep fucking popping them out.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I want to be happy. I want to make my parents proud that I raised myself well enough to make them think they did a good job. I want my nana to smile down on me and know that I was a good person, a kind person and someone who was willing to help whoever they could in whatever way they could.

  10. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Chanel
    Age: 19
    Sex: F
    Location: New Zealand

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    T.v, School, Internet, Magazines, Freinds.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Not really

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes. :) Both Female and Male

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Probably the first time I quiffed, that was weird. lol

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    Female: 13, Male: 18 and yes for both.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Sexual

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I prefer being single, as I can go out, and do what I wish, without being concerned about my actions.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Yes.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest was my first fuck buddy, and it lasted 5months, shotest was like 2weeks.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    someone I get on with, trust, caring, homorous.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Yes. A few. lol.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Normally, they just go for it, and if I don’t say no. We go for it, If they make a move I don’t like, I say no, and we don’t do anything.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Doggie

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Have and would

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Neck. Ultimate spot for me.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Threesome, and in the shower.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    Yes, I would like to.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Would like to.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Would like to.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    A guy being playful about it. but not childish.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Childish behaviour, hairyness.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Atleast once a week.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My mouth or boobs

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My boobs, and bum. They are amazing. :)

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Getting into uni.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Get my degree and then masters.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I take really nice showers with lots of body butter, its the ulitmate thing for me, relaxer, destresser, and makes my skin feel good.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Deffinatly. No women should be forced to have a child. or even be pregnant.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes. Here in Nz it is legal. :)

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No. I figure if it wasn’t meant to be there, it wouldn’t, and also, if he didn’t like it in the future, he could get it removed himself.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    HELLS YESSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive sex ed. Teaching abstainince causes more problems than it solves.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    Psychologist.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Maybe, Only if it feels truly right.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Yes

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I wan to go to another country and help women who need help due to poor conditions.

  11. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 25
    Sex: male
    Location: Santiago de chile

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    I always knew that sex existed, but most of my learning was through the internet and through conversation
    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    sure, my mum mostly. she was awkward, but very brave in tackling this from an early age. [my early age, not hers]
    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    sure. sitting on the stone stairs of a park-hill thingie here. It was emotionally intense.
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    I was scoodlypooping with my then girlfriend and a series of people came in the room: an ex, my little brother, my nanny and a couple of friends. it sucked.
    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    humm… maybe 16? 17? and hell no. I mean I was emotionally prepared, but I was a kid and I was just trying to burn stages and burn my V-card, as it were. bad choice.
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    yup
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I haven’t been single for a long while since like… 2003 or something? yeah, I’m a serial monogamist, I suppose some single life would do me good.
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    sure, why not.
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    yup. once… nah, twice.
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    some 3 years and then some.
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    bewbs. Nah, I don’t know. attraction isn’t a choice -blergh, cheesy pickup system quote, but it’s true!.
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Sure! a really low educational level, too deep an ethical divide, estrechez de corazón, which means narrowness of heart, and… humm… yeah, like fascism or bigotry.
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    saying “you absolutely sure?” if it’s the first time, and, on long-term relationships… well… teasing them so they’re the one coming on to me.
    14. What is your favorite position?
    REALLY depends on my mood and the person. I kinda like having a girl on top of me and sucking on her nipples.
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    not with coitus, but I’ve hooked up.
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    neck, ears, back, also I enjoy having my arms nibbled for whatever reason.
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Sure! pegging, transexuals, rape fantasy, BDSM, threesomes…
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    nope, but I would try.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    some, but like, using a t-shirt to bind girls and the like, nothing hardcore.
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    not a lot, I mean I would but… it doesn’t rock my boat, which is funny because I’ve played D&D since I was a kid.
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    I… have no idea, actually. There’s a lot.
    22. Biggest turn off?
    cheesy romantic comedy lines during sex. “I’m going to rock your world” or “make me yours”.
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    I guess an average of 3,4 times a day with a standard deviation of like 5.
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    probably my shoulders, buuuut… I’m told my legs.
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I’m bright, not smart by any means, but bright. Also, I’m extremely humble… not.
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    probably becoming a sociologist.
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    I want to finish this novel I’m writing… and also, to stop being such a cliche..you know, sex positive, progressive guy who wants to be a novelist? so overdone!
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Well, I work out. And for the most part I eat healthy: healthier than most people I’m around, at the very least.
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Fuck yeah. I even support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she intentionally got pregnant.
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Depends on the law, but in general, sure, why not.
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    Humm… no!?!. carving people up irrevocably without their consent for the loose.
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    All marriage should be legal. I mean, I between humans that are adults, at the very least.
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    there’s something to be said for abstinence only… it helps countries with an aging populations. [which is to say, fuck abstinence only, good thing in Chile we don't have such aberrations]
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I already grew up? humm… yeah, like a writer, or a teacher, or a researcher… hopefully all three of ‘em.
    35. Do you want to get married?
    To you? sure! nah, not really.
    36. Do you want to have children?
    I really don’t know… maybe?
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    change the world into a different, more equal, fairer place. hey, a guy can dream, right??
    –without numbers if you want to edit it–

  12. Sex+ Questionnaire For: I’d rather not just in case……..
    Age: 18
    Sex: female
    Location: currently in Germany

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    The internet and a close friend who told me about his sex adventures.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    No…..we kinda just avoid it.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    I was 16 and it happened when I broke the bad of gummy bears on my friend’s back and he quickly stole a kiss while I had my head down.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Farting when he pulled out >.>

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    17 and um not sure how to explain it…..no for the most part.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Currently long-distance relationship.

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Well as long I have my friends, soccer and theater I’m good being single. But being in a relationship with someone who is kind, funny, smart, and makes me feel safe makes me feel even better.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Nooooo, I don’t think I’d be able to handle it.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Never.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    1 year, still going strong. A day, it wasn’t even a one night stand.Me and a friend were sitting together watching a movie and we started to hold hands, then cuddle then make out and after that we kinda acted like it never happened xD

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Honest, friendly, good with pets, funny, protective, thinks for himself and not what others tell him to, and have common interests I have.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    I don’t understand.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    With body language.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    I have no idea what its called….(i’m must be an idiot)

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    No and don’t plan to.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    EVERYWHERE………………i mean…..MOSTLY everywhere.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Um…….

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    No, don’t think I ever will.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    o.O what?

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Not yet, but I’d like to try.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Not sure. It’s a combination of things: kissing, smelling good, biting, rubbing, scratching my back, whispering my ear, feeling his weight on me, etc

    22. Biggest turn off?

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Not enough to write how often.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My eyes when turned on. or so my partner says.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    Being a vegetarian if that counts. ^.^

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Winning scholarship to spend a year in Germany as an exchange student living with host family and going to German high school. (I’ve already graduated in america, its really a gap year for me)

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Become as flexible as Voldo from Soul Calibur 4 through yoga everyday.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Vegetarian diet, running, soccer, yoga, socialize with friends, treat self to yummy food.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    She has every right.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    As long as they aren’t spreading aids.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No, wth, wtf?!

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    YES.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive, please. The adults need to get realistic, practically all my classmates had already done it in my junior year and it got awkward at lunch when they asked me if ‘sex is bad’ because I was the ‘good girl’ of the group and I said ‘no, it’s not bad.’ and the weird thing is I’m sure would’ve said “YES, its bad.” ( i had been taught you’re only suppose to do it when married and I’m not even religious ) except I had recently almost engaged in fucking and even though we didn’t fuck, we did get pretty intimate and I was already trying to figure out in my had what was and wasn’t okay.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    Fitness or personal trainer.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Maybe.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Someday but when I’m in my mid or late 20s.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Make sure my family will survive and actually live decently. And show people that not all vegetarians are crazy people working for PETA (i support them but I stopped participating because the majority of people are so crazy and give a bad name to vegetarians. They are almost the equivalent to a religious person trying to force their beliefs on me by trying to force everyone else to immediately change their diet.) >.>

  13. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 27
    Sex: Female
    Location: Maine

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    My friend Nikki told me about it and demonstrated with Barbie dolls.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    I was able but I didn’t.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Put my foot through a wall.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    16. No.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Yes.

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I strongly believe in the positive aspects of both. I can find happiness in both.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    No.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest: Year and a half. Shortest: a month or so.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Intelligence. Kindness. Respect. Independence. Curiosity.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Yes. Several. They aren’t small things. They’re big things.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    I like to have a conversation about a sexual relationship before it begins.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Missionary. I know, I know.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    I’ve had one. It was awkward and uncomfortable. Not for me.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Thighs!

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Yes.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I haven’t. Would I? Never say never.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Again. I haven’t but I might. Probably unlikely.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    No.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    The build up. Soft touching/kissing that builds up.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Disrespect of my mind and body.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    3-4 times a week.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    Thighs/hips.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My bravery in life. My independence. The way I treat others.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Getting a job at the hospital of my choice.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Become a yoga instructor.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Yoga. Eating well. Laughing. Running. Surrounding myself with good people.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes. 100%.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    I support protection, safety, and respect for sex workers.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Absolutely.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive sex education.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I’m already what I want to be. A nurse.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Maybe.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Maybe.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Be loved and happy.

  14. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Arcueid
    Age:21
    Sex:Male
    Location:South Africa

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Grade 10 biology

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Yes. However I had no reason to.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Never been kissed. I intend to keep it that way, I do not appreciate people touching me

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    I have none. Also I do not get embarrassed

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    Virgin. As stated above, I intend to keep it that way. The idea of being untouched, being unobtainable helps me do my job better.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    No

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Single.(Aromantic)

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    No.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No. If I were in a relationship I simply could not, I am a very precise and well calculated individual. If I were to choose a mate, I would be dedicated to her forever.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Never been in a relationship.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    I do not want a partner. At least not the kind this questionnaire is referring to. I wouldn’t mind an assistant though.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    No. People will always eventually disappoint you.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    N/A

    14. What is your favorite position?
    N/A

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    No

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    I don’t like other people touching me.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    No. Never want to have sex.(asexual)

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    No

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    No

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    No

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    I do not have one

    22. Biggest turn off?
    I do not have one

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    I have never and will never masturbate

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    I do not understand the question.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I do not have a favourite quality. However if one where to gage this by what I am good at, then It would be my ability to think.Hence my brain

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    I do not think of events as accomplishments while other people may think so. By my standards, there are none. I just do my job.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To know as much about the universe and all its components and properties that my brain can contain. At which point I will have to find a way to get more memory.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I do train, I study, I sleep at acceptable intervals, I eat healthy, I read.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes. I find the use of the word ‘accident’ funny.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    I do not intend on having children. If I did have a boy It wouldn’t exactly come to mind. Yes

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Yes, however having sex should not be encouraged at all. When people have too much freedom they tend to make a mess of things. Enforce abstinence as the correct route, but do not assume humans are always sensible. Make sure that those that stray can protect themselves appropriately. Let them be warned that if they drink too much water from the well, they will drown.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    An Engineer.(Pretty much there already)

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Not particularly no. (aromantic remember?)

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Not the conventional way. I would like to build a child though, it would be an interesting project.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Nothing. I am sure that whatever I give them, they will waste.

  15. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Jessica
    Age: 22
    Sex: Female
    Location: Ontario CANADA J

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    A bit of school, and unfortunately the media

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Not really

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes, far too messy and slobbery

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    When you knee them in the balls…Oops

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I was 18, and yes I was. I was with a partner at the time that I really cared for and really cared for me.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Negative

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I think I prefer relationships. I like sharing my day/life with someone, although being single I have learned to rely on myself alone which is very empowering

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    negative

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    negative

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest: 4 ½ years, shortest: a couple weeks

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Someone who trusts themselves, is charming, funny, slightly quirky and has an open mind about life

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    I really can’t stand a close minded person or someone who “hates” animals.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Ready?

    14. What is your favorite position?
    I love being on top

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Affirmative I have

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    My lower back

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Not that I can think of at the moment, although I am sure there is some things, after reading below I would like to try BDSM and role-playing!

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    Negative

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Negative

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Negative

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    When a guy is confident in himself

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Arrogance or being over cocky like he owns the place

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    daily

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My curves, right above my hjp area

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My eyes

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Trusting myself and knowing what I need and don’t need in my life

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To become an excellent dancer!

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    By listening to my body

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes, simply because I feel a large portion of prostitutes don’t want to be their, they feel it’s the only way and therefore limiting themselves in what they can achieve

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    Probably not, I would feel so bad

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes!!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Sexual Education should be given in High school and even before that age

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    A teacher however that may be

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Affirmative

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Affirmative

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Show them that love is possible above any circumstance.

  16. Age: 19
    Sex: Female
    Location: South East of England

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex? Internet/friends

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? Nope

    3. Do you remember your first kiss? Yup

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.: Stupid dance/breaking wind during sex *facepalm*

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    19 and very, very ready.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? Both

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Both are great. I wouldn’t say one is better than the other.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? I don’t think I could handle more than one partner, one is enough for me, haha.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? Nope

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    My first BF was technically 2 and a half/3 years but I wasn’t in love with the guy, you learn from these things. My present BF (my second) has currently been going on for 15 months.

    11. What do you look for in a partner? Accept me for me, dry/witty sense of humour, good looks don’t hurt, patient, understanding and someone who I can communicate with easily – dealing with the good and bad.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”? Racist, homophobic, sexist, a need to be incredibly ‘macho/lad-like’, too materialistic.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent? With the BF, just say. He’s always up for it, lol.

    14. What is your favorite position? Doggy.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand? Don’t think I could do it.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner? Thighs/neck/back

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)? Doggy over the desk, sex on a chair, against the wall, on the floor, in public.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)? Nope.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM? Like handcuffs? Yeah.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play? Nope but would like to try it.

    21. What is your biggest turn on? Oral

    22. Biggest turn off? Sex with no oral

    23. How often do you masturbate? 2-4 a week.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body? Bum/hips

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? I’m patient, quite blunt and pretty open minded

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years? I think it might be how I managed to tear myself away from continuously being brainwashed about Islam.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself. Get myself away from Islam as much as possible and stay happy with my partner.

    28. How do you take care of yourself? Sleep, try to eat more fish/shellfish, not rely on meat to satisfy me for my meals, quality time by myself.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? Yep

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal? Yep, in a ideal world (for myself), I wouldn’t particularly like it to exist but for some, it becomes unfortunate, and it needs to be done in clean, safe environments.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)? Not as a baby, no. Old enough to understand it and with consent, go ahead.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal? Yeah.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only? Given in high school. Need to teach otherwise they’ll learn the hard way!

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up? It was ‘Graphics Designer’ but now, not so sure.

    35. Do you want to get married? Ummm, not sure. You don’t need it but for legal reasons, maybe.

    36. Do you want to have children? Not really, no.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die? Stay my cheery/chatty self, which then can rub onto others. Don’t want anyone to take shit too seriously.

    –without numbers if you want to edit it–

    Sex+ Questionnaire for:
    Age:
    Sex:
    Location:

    Sexual Awakenings

    How did you learn about sex?

    Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?

    Do you remember your first kiss?

    Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.

    How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?

    Relationships

    Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?

    Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?

    Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?

    Have you ever cheated on a partner?

    What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?

    What do you look for in a partner?

    Do you have any “deal breakers”?

    Sexploration

    What is your favorite way to ask for consent?

    What is your favorite position?

    Would you/have you had a one night stand?

    What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?

    Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?

    Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?

    Would you/have you practiced BDSM?

    Would you/have you done role-play?

    What is your biggest turn on?

    Biggest turn off?

    How often do you masturbate?

    What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?

    Self Love

    What’s your favorite thing about yourself?

    What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?

    Tell us one goal you have for yourself.

    How do you take care of yourself?

    Hot Topics

    Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?

    Do you think prostitution should be legal?

    If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?

    Should same-sex marriage be legal?

    Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    What do you want to be when you grow up?

    Do you want to get married?

    Do you want to have children?

    What do you want to do for others before you die?

  17. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Barry G
    Age: 33
    Sex: Male
    Location: west of Ireland

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex? specially organized sex ed evening class in my old Christian Brothers School, when I was 12.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? Nope

    3. Do you remember your first kiss? All too well, I was 19 & there was a lot of teeth involved, I have improved immeasurably. :P

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc. same girl I had my first kiss with, I could never get it up for her!

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it? 19, I had been ready for it for about 7 years but I was always considered socially awkward so no girl would approach me

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? I’m married so yup

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why? there are days when I long for a single life, but then my wife will fall asleep in my arms & I can’t imagine any other kind of happiness

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? I’m a guy so obviously yes, but it would all be decided by my wife who I/we would be with!

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? unfortunately yes & I have regretted it everyday since, all because of a stupid fight

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest? been with my wife now for 10 years, the woman I cheated on my wife with 1 hour (of self loathing and loss!)

    11. What do you look for in a partner? intelligence, and a strong head on her shoulders. someone who enjoys a good giggle & isn’t afraid to try something new sexually.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”? wow um, someone who has foul mouth (which my wife has). doesn’t like sex very much (kinda like the way my wife has been for a very long time now).

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent? never really mastered that! we just start to kiss & if she is in the mood things happen, if I’m in the mood she just says no!

    14. What is your favorite position? I love the intimate ones, where we can see each others eyes.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand? I came very close once when I was about 20ish, but chickened out before anything could happen & went home to bed alone.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner? I have a mole on my stomach that I love her kissing!

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)? I have always wanted 2 girls to go down on me at the same time. but that will never happen thanks to my cheating on her.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)? No the night that I would have had the one night stand was the only time I ever came close.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM? we played around with whips and tying each other down, but not for a very long time

    20. Would you/have you done role-play? not really

    21. What is your biggest turn on? someone wanting to have sex with me is usually enough to get me going! :-/

    22. Biggest turn off? been given the cold shoulder

    23. How often do you masturbate? most days

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body? I really haven’t thought about it in that way

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? can’t think of anything

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years? haven’t really got one, other than staying employed!

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself. keep my job nothing else matters

    28. How do you take care of yourself? I read books to keep the panic attacks at bay

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? I believe that life is sacred & I believe that if a woman is raped or her life is in danger then yes I’m afraid there really is no other choice but to have the abortion

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal? if handled correctly, so as not to exploit the persons involved then why not.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)? HELLs NO!

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal? is water wet!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only? comprhensive all the way

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up? I am grown up & the way I am feeling all I want to do is quit and become a full time dad, but I’m the only bread winner in our house and have way too much debt to pay off.

    35. Do you want to get married? have been for 6 years 4moths now

    36. Do you want to have children? have 2 wonderful little boys already and they are the best thing that ever happened to me

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die? I’m trying to get our family tree as comprehensively completed so my kids know where they are from.

  18. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 14
    Sex: F
    Location: Scandinavia

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    I first heard about it in 1st-2nd grade or something through my class, but I have gained more and more knowledge about the subject over the years, mostly after I started watching sex+!

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    I might have had a couple of talks with my mother about this subject, but I would never even dare to talk about it with my father… o.o

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes… I made out with a girl in kindergarden… Yummie -.-”

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    When I told my friends that I had a secret, but wanted to tell them later. They told me that I should start by telling one of my parents, before my friends… I told them that I had just fought with my mother, so I’d have to wait a few days with telling her… And then my mouth slipped, and I told them: “…and my father is kinda homofobic, so…” -.-”

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    13, no, not at first, but as I kept on, I figured out that I was.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Both

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    In a relationship. Because it gives me confidence.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I don’t think so, but I haven’t tried it out.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Yes. I had 4 partners on an internet game when I was 11.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest: Soon 5 months (The one I am in now) (exept the time I forgot i had a partner for 1 year. (we were 10)). Shortest: About 1 second o.o

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    That he/she loves me as much as i love him/her.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Homophobic, calls me things I don’t like.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    I’m not sure.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Lying right next to each other.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Yes.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Everywhere!

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Not really.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    No I haven’t, and I don’t think I wanna try it

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    No.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    No I haven’t, don’t know if i would

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    When somebody takes of their chlotes for me.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    When people are trying to make me horny when I’m ABSOLUTELY not -.-”

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Evey second day maybe…?

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    Probably the breasts.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    The fact that my nails grow really fast, and are really strong.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    I don’t know

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Get happy with my body (not just getting enough confidence to live with the body I have now, but do something with it, change it)

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I don’t, and I never have done.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes, specially if she is young (under 16), raped or thinks that she will not be able to give her baby the life it deserves.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No, never! Pooe little thing… o.o

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    YES!!! Fuck homophobes… Fuck christianity, you ruined my life!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    I don’t know.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    A make-up artist or a musician.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Yes, i think so.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    I’m really unsure.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Stop homophobia, do their make-up and sing a song for them :D

    I really hope no one can recognise me through this… :P

  19. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Luke Menniss
    Age:19
    Sex:Male
    Location:London, UK

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?

    Internet.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    The morning after one of the first nights staying over my previous partner’s house I arrived back home.
    My mum turned to me and asked “hey, were you up all night shagging?”
    Smiling, I replied “yeaaaaaaaah”
    She gave me a high five.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?

    With a guy: My 16th birthday (this was before I was comfortable with liking guys)
    With a girl: 25th June 2009 at Glastonbury music festival in a small tent which Newton Faulkner was doing an unannounced set. Kinda hard to forget that one.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.

    I am rarely embarrassed nowadays. There are probably things i’ve done that have embarrassed me but at the time i must’ve not assigned much significance as nothing really comes to mind.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?

    I was 16. It was with my first partner. I was ready but none too graceful. Not that I see myself as “graceful as fuck” nowadays.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?

    returns True.

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?

    I enjoy intimate company. Single life seems to lack that.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?

    Have/ am/ are. My partner and I are some distance apart and recognise that attraction to other fine human beings is inevitable. It’ll be interesting to see how this develops.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?

    nope.jpg

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?

    Longest lasted 8 months. My current one is still ongoing (funnily enough).

    11. What do you look for in a partner?

    What I would look for in any other companion (common interest and understanding, varying views) plus the extra of finding them attractive and being able to be totally open with them.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?

    Not really. Beyond those that go without saying.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?

    “So… wana bang?” (only kinda kidding). Yeah make your request interesting/ funny but always make sure that it is not too obscure. Sometimes straight forward asking is the most effective way to find out.

    14. What is your favorite position?

    I like girl on top and variations of that. The Lateral coital position looks interesting but I haven’t tried that. I’m comfortable with most positions within reason.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?

    I am happy to make out with people on a night out but I don’t think that one night stands are for me. Mostly because I enjoy being familiar and comfortable with my partners.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?

    Around the neck and collar bone mostly. (I really like necks. On other people and myself.)

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?

    More in the way of anal penetration (of myself). My partner and I have experimented a bit with that but I’d like to take it further.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?

    It’s an interesting concept but I am terrible at multitasking. I’d imagine trying to please more than one person would be considerably more difficult.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?

    I have not and am not heavily interested in that area. Scratching and biting is nice but that’s about it.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?

    I have not. It might be fun but I think I’d have difficulty taking it seriously.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?

    Moans. The sound of other people moaning/ gasping is so hot for me. Oh and necks. I like necks lots and lots.

    22. Biggest turn off?

    I’m very ticklish. Gentle tickling is fine but just straight out ticking me makes me very uncomfortable and often slightly panicked. Not fun.

    23. How often do you masturbate?

    It varies. If I have nothing to do/ nobody around I will happily fap at least once a day. It often drops below that when my partner is up/ when i have a lot of work/ when I’m out of the house a lot.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?

    Definitely not my nipples. Why do guys even have those? I don’t really view any parts of my body as “erotic”.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?

    My obsessiveness with acquiring knowledge

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?

    Making it to university. It has enabled me to meet lots of new people and given me many new opportunities.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.

    FINISH MY ALBUM.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?

    Wash regularly, eat frequently and walk everywhere I can.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?

    Yep.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?

    Yes for the safety of both the prostitutes and the clients.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?

    Genital mutilation is genital mutilation. If they want to do that to themselves/ need to for medial reasons then they’re welcome to. But it’s not my decision.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?

    I don’t value marriage that highly but, if two people want to get married, then two should be able to get married.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?

    High school is often too late. I think sex education should start even younger than that.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?

    Happy.

    35. Do you want to get married?

    I don’t see too much value in marriage myself well outside of business dealings between members of the ruling class. If you’re going to make a long term commitment to someone I think that perhaps moving in with them should be a display of that commitment although I also think that displays of commitment between parties should be unique to the parties. If we acknowledge that humans and their interactions are unique, why have only one accepted display of long term commitment? Although I’d still want cake.

    36. Do you want to have children?

    Not yet. I’d want to enjoy a long time following my own dreams before replacing them with children. I think growing up in a family with a lot of younger siblings has caused me to develop that mindset. I cant help viewing infants as “non-sentient poop larvae”.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?

    This is a bit of a weird question for me. I want to show others that being happy and being productive can be one and the same but also that spending a few days every now and then doing stuff that isn’t strictly productive is also essential to happiness. I’d rather people celebrate my life and I hope they will not dress my death up as more than it is.

  20. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 23
    Sex: M
    Location: Texas

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Internet, school, friends

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Not really, too awkward

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Not really

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    She got me so drunk I couldn’t get it up haha.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    19, it went well I guess.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Neither

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Single, don’t trust people and I like my freedom.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I don’t really know what that means.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Nope

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    I’ve never had a relationship that’s lasted longer than a month tops. I either get fed up with them or something stupid happens.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Don’t really know, people just bore me now.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Smoking I guess, I’m extremely healthy.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Never have really, never had to. They usually come on to me.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Don’t really care either way.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Had one, it was alright.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Behind the back of the head I guess? I dunno, I try not to let people get too close anymore.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Nope

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    haha, you’d have to get me pretty drunk first.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Nah

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    I dunno, maybe

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    I dig a fitness chick.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Smoking, unhealthy habits, etc.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    It used to be a lot, buy not I just control it.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    I don’t think guys really think of something like that.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I’m super shredded, disciplined, hardcore, you get the idea

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    I transformed myself from a skinny little nerdy dude into an absolute beast.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To be as hardcore as possible!

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I eat very healthy and I eat a lot, and I train/workout 5-7 hours a day. (Lifting, running, biking, swimming, yoga, etc.)

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yeah, don’t let it ruin her life.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Not really, too many diseases.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    Nah, mine wasn’t lol

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    I don’t care either way, I say just let it be legal because I’m tired of hearing people complain about it.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Abstinence only fails hardcore.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    Work my way up the personal training chain.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Not really

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Too much responsibility

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I just set out to make the world healthier.

  21. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Shalimar Boulos (Hey, that’s me!!!)
    Age: 19
    Sex: Female
    Location: Elk Grove, California!

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Mixture of school, friends, and my wonderful first lover.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    I was told I could for a long time, but when it was brought up it was very awkward. There was no talk of sexual healthy relationships. When I opened up and said I had explored sexual relations with someone, the person who I told (my mother) was apparently very disappointed in me, and still doesn’t understand why I do have sex with others without being in a relationship.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yup. Was a sweet little peck from an all-too-bad boy. ;)

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Hm…one would have to be trying on a condom and feeling it burn after a few seconds so everything had to stop right then and there. Another time was when I was in a position (don’t remember which) and I ended up intaking air into my vaginal canal and releasing a soft fart when my partner entered me. Embarrassing for me, but he didn’t seem to care.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I was 18. I was terrified, but I was ready with the partner I had.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Yes, although the sexings don’t come very much. :(

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Currently, single is good for me. I seem to be having conflicts of interests with the people I want to get with, and the people who want to get with me either don’t appeal to me or have wronged me before, and I’m not willing to give them a second chance. I miss a relationship, but I don’t have the time to devote to it, so I’ll be single for a while.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I have tried (clumsily, I might add), but if I’m attached to one person it’s hard for me to envision being with someone else, so no. But kudos to those who can!!

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Yes…I have cheated on a couple of partners. I feel terrible for those instances… Now I’m learning better communication skills so that it doesn’t happen again, or at least there is an understanding of boundaries and what is expected of me and him/her.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest relationship was about one year. Shortest was either a month or two.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    I really want my partner to be able to make me laugh and make me feel safe. I would love for my lover to be a sexual explorer like me and open-minded. I want to be able to have in-depth conversations with my partner about intellectual and current event topics. I just want someone who is compatible and makes me want them to be in my life without feeling like I’m giving up everything for them.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Sexist bigots can leave. Those who put pressure on me to follow their every word and try to control me are out. Abusers in any way, verbal or physical, have no place in my life. I don’t need people who force me to change for them and make me cut out family and friends in my life.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    “Hey baby, are you interested? ;) I’d really like to get to know you better.” I’m still working it out. :D

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Doggy style, always. Omg, yes.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    I actually haven’t. Anyone I’ve had sex with I’ve continued multiple times or I keep contact with them.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Hmmm…back, neck, breasts, butt, inner thigh, inner forearm, back of my hand and fingers…

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    I would like to be tied up or put in a dungeon. Generally exploring more BDSM and Dom/sub relations would be awesome.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    No, but I am interested.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    Yes I have!

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    I have also done this.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    I love it when a guy dominates me. I also love when a guy whispers in my ear while teasing. Mmm…shivers…

    22. Biggest turn off?
    I’ve figured out my biggest turn off is when a guy mentions he doesn’t use condoms. Big NO!

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    I try every day, if not 5 times a week. Depends how much free time I have and what mood I’m in.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My butt and my neck, I think.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I love the shape of my body, my eyes and smile, and how my hands look.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Getting into UC Davis and managing to not get kicked out.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To find out what I really want to do; maybe become a sexual education counselor or a counselor for relationships, sexual health/safety?

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I like to take some time to myself, give myself a hot shower and clean up my body fully. Maybe even look at myself in the mirror and look at my body and admire myself for a bit. Just give myself time to see that I do love “me.” :D

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Oh yes, of course! Reminds me, I need to do some research on the abortion process…

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    I don’t really see why not. If prostitution is legal, will it be assured that those girls/guys do get protection and proper care?

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    I don’t see any reason to do so, so no.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes yes YES!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive. I kind of want to teach sex education. :D

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    Now that’s the question… Something psychology related, or maybe even sex related (counseling-wise)!

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Someday. Maybe. Don’t see the point in it, but I do want a gathering of friends and family to recognize a union with me and my lover.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Someday I do.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I want to teach them how to love themselves. If not, I want to teach them to look at the world in a different light than what others want to see.

  22. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Katelin
    Age: 23
    Sex: F
    Location: Nebraska

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Internet, school, friends

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Not back then…

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes…it was super awkward!

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    There are too many to chose just one!

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    15, wouldn’t say READY but it happened and it was alright..

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Is FWB considered a sexual relationship…haha?

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Right now I’m content with being single, but I do like being in a relationship too.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Yes.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Nope.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Longest is 6 1/2 months, shortest..probably like a day.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    I haven’t really decided.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Someone who doesn’t/can’t make me laugh or is just a straight up asshole.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    I have not a clue.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    On top or doggy…ha I haven’t tried anything to crazy though I guess, but I’d be open to try some things.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    I have never had sex with a guy only one time….

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    My back, my lower stomach, my thighs.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Maybe.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I have a couple times.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    I might try it even if it’s not my thing.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    No.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Sexy body.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Not being good in bed but talking like they are..

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Ha like every other day!

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    Never really thought about it.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I’m comfortable with me, how I am..

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    I have became the strongest, most independent person I know. Of all of my friends I’m the only single one and I see that as very independent.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To figure out what it is I want to do with my life!

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I’ve recently started working out. Going to classes (fit express, and yoga so far) and using the machines at the gym.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    I have been there, done that. I absolutely positively 100% support that!

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Not really.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    Yeah.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Absolutely. Love is love.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive…telling teens to stay abstinence obviously is NOT working.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I still have to figure that out.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Sometimes I think it’d be great, and sometimes I think it’s pointless.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    Yes! I sure do.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    …I don’t know.. :(

  23. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 16
    Sex: Female
    Location: Ireland

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex? Well I first learned from a girl in my elementary school but did my research online and from books C:

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? I always could but choose not to.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss? Yes! I was 11 and my friends pressured me to..I did want to but I was ridiculously shy and wanted to just die. anyways it was in a bush-cave thing and it was awful :D

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc. We were going to have sex, both naked and movin’ around and BAM-no erection.. he tried for a while to get one but it wasn’t happenin’.. not so much embarrassing for me, I was just pretty disappointed but he was quite embarrassed xD

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it? I presume this means anything sexual and not just sex?- I was 14 and yeah I was, it was with someone who I trusted completely and who I was completely comfortable around, he didn’t pressure me in the least and I was in (what felt like) love and so was he. c:

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? No

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why? It depends on my mood.. sometimes I miss the positives of relationships but when this happens I remind myself how much of a commitment freak I am and how relationships rationally just wont work for me unless I’m with someone who fits the EXACT criteria.. I think I would prefer being in a relationship but I tell myself single life is best because I’m such a forever aloner.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? Not unless it’s only a sexual relationship, if emotions were involved I wouldn’t be able to focus on more than one person, I’d probably pick a favourite and I don’t think that would be fair.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? No

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest? Longest- 5 months. Shortest- One month…I’m not a relationships person.

    11. What do you look for in a partner? Well what I look for and what I’d work with are pretty different.. what I look for is very simple, someone who I can be myself around and who makes me happy in the same way I can make them happy. Things like good music taste and an awesome sense of humour are just bonuses. What I’d work with is someone completely emotionally detached who also doesn’t like commitment and wouldn’t treat me like a woman “should” be treated. not necessarily “badly” but someone who wouldn’t be around for breakfast in the morning. doesn’t mean that they can’t make me happy though, anything less than that I wouldn’t be able to work with (tanks mom).

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”? When they start changing to fit what they think I would like in a guy, usually generalising what they think women in general should want in a guy…and when they’re more emotional than me after like 3 months and they still shower me with love and compliments…I’m just not a romantic person.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent? I have never had to ask for consent, it just happens..

    14. What is your favorite position? I’m old fashioned, I’m gonna have to say missionary.. or the butterfly I believe it’s called .

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand? I haven’t but I would! in fact it’s on my list of things to do before I die :D

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner? hmm…Inner thighs, waist to ribs, bewbies and my back..

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)? haha there’s so much!! I never really call the shots in sex but I’d like to try something that involves blood.. like biting someone til you draw blood from them or cutting them and drinking their blood..it sounds fucking crazy but it’s a personal fantasy. also I’ve never had someone actually come inside me.. I want this! also I want sex against a tree and outside at night time. I also want to 69 with someone.. those are a few examples, there are many more!

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)? never have, I definitely would!

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM? Yes I would but I would have to be the submissive and it would have to be with another girl..

    20. Would you/have you done role-play? I haven’t, I don’t think I would..

    21. What is your biggest turn on? Neck kissing, heavy touching, tongues..

    22. Biggest turn off? Bad smells….

    23. How often do you masturbate? Usually about once a day.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body? Tongues!

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? Physically- I love my mouth. Mentally- I’m almost completely content with myself and life :D

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years? I’ve escaped a dark place I was in and found light.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself. I want to love my body more and find myself attractive.

    28. How do you take care of yourself? I eat lots of fruit and veggies.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? Yes, completely BUT I do think the dad of the baby should have some input if he really cares.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal? Yes but I don’t think there should be big brothels or it should become a majorly developed industry. The laws in england I agree with, one woman if she chooses can be a prostitute but brothels aren’t legal and she can only run from home and can’t advertise on the streets etc.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)? No, I would leave the decision up to him later in life.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal? Absolutely, love is love.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only? Comprehensive, definitely, I know a lot about sex from online only. I go to a catholic school and there is NO sex education, it’s fucking ridiculous and I’m not even catholic, I’m moving school soon but it’s ridiculous how uneducated people in my school are on the matter! it’s just not right for this day and age.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up? I want to be a journalist but not a silly celebrity one, I want to document things like the gay crisis in Uganda and important things going on in the world! I also want to do something with psychology and I want to be a theater makeup artist.. I just don’t know.

    35. Do you want to get married? I don’t believe in marriage, it’s a pointless contract that only adds strings to a relationship and costs a fuck-load for one day.. you can spend your life with someone without having to fucking label it. if you want the technicalities you can get a domestic partnership, there’s not need for marriage, I hate it!

    36. Do you want to have children? No I don’t, I don’t like children particularly but if I wanted one I would adopt.. there’s so many kids who need help in the world, I would never have my own.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die? I want to leave a positive imprint on peoples (friends, family) lives and do my best to help people in need in the world.

  24. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Me
    Age: 16
    Sex: F
    Location: Sweden

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    I don’t know. It feels like I have known about it forever. Friends and school i guess.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Naah. They tried once when I was 11 I just looked at them and said “do you think I’m retarded?”… wow I had lots to learn.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Not my first kiss but my first make out. I was only 10… ugh

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Wow… well just 2 months ago I was dateing a guy i really liked but I was going threw a lot of anxiety we had sex 2 times and i totally failed both of the times cause I got dry after like 30 minutes. He was really embarrassed, poor thing.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I was 15. I don’t know like I wish it happened with someone else. But I was ready for it.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Nope.

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I have never been in a offical serious relationship. So I wish it would happen soon since I think I would learn a lot but I guess it won’t happen if I just sit and wait for it.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    No!

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Yes. I was dateing a guy for like 4 months and he was a really, really nice guy. But I had my priorities else where. And hooked up with somone else on new years one year ago.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    I never had a serious relationship. But I guess the guy I dated for 4 months was my longest just that we never went offical.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Someone who makes me laugh and that I could hang out with forever if you know what I mean. But I always fall for bad boys.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    ?

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Usually it just happens.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Missionary.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Yes.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Being scratched on the inside of my arm.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Yeah sure. I just started!
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    Naah I don’t think so. No never.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    No
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Yeah sure

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Eye contact. Being scratched. And guys knowing what they are doing.
    22. Biggest turn off?
    Guys digging for Antarctica. There is something called klitoris.
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Twice a week.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    I don’r know. I think my hole body is mighty fiine.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    physical – my eyes, psychological – my humor and being daring.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    getting over my depression all on my own :)

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    Getting out of school. 2 years left…

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I try to eat healthier and I work out :)

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Yes

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes but regulated like all other jobs.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    I’m part jewish. But no.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Sex+ education

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    Criminologist

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Naah it’s old fashion.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    meh just one

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I don’t know.

  25. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Julia
    Age: 21
    Sex: female
    Location: Georgia

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    my mom talked about it with me since i was a child and i had books on the subject

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    yes and no, I was able to discuss sex on an intellectual level but discussing our own sex lives has only recently become possible

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    I got curious what it felt like cause I’d read about it in so many books, a half bullied a male friend into smooching me on the back of the bus. it was extremely wet and his breath was awful

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    idk about embarrassing but the most awkward was this one time when I tryed to have sex we got to pumps into it before we made eye contact and got so freaked out we stopped

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    the first time I had sex was 5 days before turning 16 the first time I did things I would consider my sexual debut was the same age several months before

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    my blossoming sexual relationship has some pleasant romantic undertones I was not expecting

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I usually prefer to be single, because I tend to constantly think about dumping the person when I’m in a relationship, and I have a man habit of falling for men who are emotionally abusive.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I have and I came close to being in a 3 way relationship once, but I got the sense that they thought of me more as a sexual accessory than an equal partner.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    yes, I was stuck in a situation were I was no longer in it for love, but because I felt like I owed him something, and I kissed my ex-boyfriend, I can’t really call what I did a mistake, I actually think in allot of ways it was for the best.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    10 months I dumped him right after I lost my virginity, and no idea

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    someone who turns me and I’m sexually compatible with, someone who likes to go on extremely long aimless walk. Someone who enjoys my rambles and can keep up a conversation, someone who doesn’t remind me of anyone else, someone I never feel self conscious around.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    men and women who call women whores. people who are unintelligent, racist, sexist, homophobes, men who hit women, or make jokes about abuse and rape.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    do you want to fuck?

    14. What is your favorite position?
    I once did this position where i crossed my legs indain style and a guy pressed them to my chest it was a huge turn on it made him go super deep and it gave me the chance to use my arms as well as my legs for pumping, that be said it only works that well for me when it’s spontaneous

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    yes and yes

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    my hips! they are so sensitive, that being said i HATE it when guys try and control how I ride by grabbing them and trying to push me around.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    I want to know what double penetration feels like

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    yes I have and if the circumstances were right I would again.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    I have practiced s and m but bondage makes me go into scared victim mode so I avoid it, but I would like to get more comfortable with it one day

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    no actually, I don’t like pretending not to be me it doesn’t make me feel sexy but maybe one day I’ll try it for kicks

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    when someone can touch my skin so gently I can literally cum from it alone, well that and great conversation

    22. Biggest turn off?
    minute men, and clingers

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    it depends on whats going on in my life anywhere from 2 times a day to 4 times a week would not be unusual

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    my hips, they’re quite wide and womanly

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    my creativity

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    getting over my self hate

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    making the world a better place and touching people’s lives in a positive way

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    not sure I understand the question

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    yes completely, but on a personal level I don’t think I could do it.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    yes I do, I think legalizing it would get the abusive elements out of it.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    hell no

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes!

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    comprehensive sex ed, I went to a school with a “choosing the best” program and by my senior year of high school 6 seniors (out of a class of 125 people) were pregnant (and that’s not even counting girls in other grades the fathers of those children or girls in my class who had already given birth) that horse shit doesn’t work

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    have a child care service that teaches about all types of love (including that between different races and same sexes) and give a discount to single moms

    35. Do you want to get married?
    no, and I never have, but i prove time and time again that I have no clue who I am going to become

    36. Do you want to have children?
    maybe if I could share the responsiblity with a gay couple but i still don’t know…

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    empower them, decrease hate due to misunderstandings

  26. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Karin
    Age: 18
    Sex: Female
    Location: Arizona

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex? School

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? Eh, kinda, not the most comfortable topic.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss? Yes

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc. One of the first times I tried giving head, I was sick, and I vomited all over the guy.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?15, yes

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? Yes

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why? Relationship, I prefer to have someone by my side to share in the good and bad parts of my life.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? I’m not sure, in some ways I am a jealous person, and I am trying to work on it.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? No

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest? 1 year in 2 days <3

    11. What do you look for in a partner? Intelligence, drive, open minded, and being a creative thinker.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”? People who emotionally abuse me or my friends. I've had enough of that throughout my life and I am done with it.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent? By trying to be subtle, I'm a bit shy.

    14. What is your favorite position? So far just missionary, but I get bossy sometimes.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand? I don't like them, but yes.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner? I like when my partner scratches my back.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)? So much stuff, toys, positions, I also want to figure out masturbation just for my pleasure.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)? Willing to try but no.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM? I would like to but no.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play? Yes

    21. What is your biggest turn on? Dominance or being dominant

    22. Biggest turn off? Odd dirty talk.

    23. How often do you masturbate? I've tried a couple times but I haven't exactly hit the right buttons yet.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body? I personally love my stomach.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? I love the fact that I can craft and create things that other people only wish they could do, especially since I mostly taught myself.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years? Slowly learning how to love myself and making friends.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself. To own a small farm in a cooler climate with some sheep and other productive animals, maybe make my own fresh organic food…. Maybe in Ireland.

    28. How do you take care of yourself? That I'm still trying to figure out. I was recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder so I'm still trying to figure out what would make me feel the best.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? Yes.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal? Yes, but monitored like in Amsterdam .

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)? Nope, that's his choice.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal? Of course.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only? Complete comprehensive sex ed. I wish I knew all the stuff I am learning at 18 then, it would save me a ton of trouble.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up? Chief / Nurse.

    35. Do you want to get married? Not really.

    36. Do you want to have children? No.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die? I want to make people smile and know someone loves them.

  27. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Sarah
    Age: 19
    Sex: Female
    Location: Australia
    Sexual Awakenings
    1. How did you learn about sex? – The wonderful picture-book, “Mommy laid an egg”
    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? – When I had questions mum answered them pretty well.
    3. Do you remember your first kiss? – Yes, it was very recent. Only five months ago.
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc. – I don’t think I’ve had one.
    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it? – I’m still a virgin.
    Relationships
    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? – Romantic
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why? – Single. I’m currently in the very first relationship I’ve ever had and I’m really missing being single. I just like that sense of not having to have a “partner.
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? – Nope.
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? – Ha ha, no way.
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest? – My current one, five months. But I’ve known him for about four years now.
    11. What do you look for in a partner? – I honestly have no idea. I don’t want a partner.
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”? – I go as far as cuddling and kisses on the cheek. Any more than that and I tell him to back off.
    Sexploration
    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent? – Don’t know, never had sex.
    14. What is your favorite position? – I wouldn’t know.
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand? – Nope and nope.
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner? – Not at all.
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)? – Nope
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)? – Not a chance in hell.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM? – Nope and nope.
    20. Would you/have you done role-play? – Nope and nope.
    21. What is your biggest turn on? – Aha,here we go. Fiction. I love reading slashfiction and fanart and the like. But things like reptiles, bones, the sound of thunder storms, music ect ect, make me go weak in the knees.
    22. Biggest turn off? – The thought of touching another person intimately.
    23. How often do you masturbate? – Never…. Should I mention that I’m asexual?
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body? – My right hand, because that’s my drawing hand.
    Self Love
    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? – See; my right hand.
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years? – Getting a job where I can draw my comics.
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself. – Have my comics published.
    28. How do you take care of yourself? – I eat regular meals, walk from my house to town and back a few times a week, I don’t smoke, don’t drink, don’t do drugs and I never will.
    Hot Topics
    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? – She can choose what she thinks is right for her.
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal? – I think it would depend. What kind of rules would they be setting down if it was made legal? There should be age-limits of course, but there should be hard rules for this kind of thing so no one gets hurt.
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)? – Nope.
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal? –Hell yeah.
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only? – Comprehensive sex education, let the kids know what they’re getting into.
    To Infinity, and Beyond
    34. What do you want to be when you grow up? – Artist.
    35. Do you want to get married? – Not sure. I don’t think so.
    36. Do you want to have children? – Yes.
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die? – Let them enjoy good stories.

  28. Sex+ Questionnaire for:
    Age:23
    Sex:Male
    Location:Malaysia/ Manchester, England

    Sexual Awakenings

    How did you learn about sex?
    Pretty late…through friends

    Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    No

    Do you remember your first kiss?
    Never had one

    Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    never had a partner before…so none

    How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    still a virgin

    Relationships

    Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    nope, though…it would be nice..sexual or romantic

    Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    i dont know

    Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    yes, but that happening is unlikely (im athiest in case anyones wondering)

    Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    nope

    What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    wel..ive only ever had one..it lasted 2 weeks..

    What do you look for in a partner?
    i will be honest here…im not a perfectionist or anything but a great body is welcome, decent boobs of any shape, but really on the outside..i dont know on a deeper level… forward thinking, willing to learn , honest about life, non religious, thoughtful, open, considerate, and with empathy….

    Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    not sure what that is….

    Sexploration

    What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    i may need help on this(still a virgin)

    What is your favorite position?
    dont know

    Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    nope..it would be nice to, provided its all safe

    What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    well…down there of course and every where else!

    Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    yes, im always open

    What is your biggest turn on?
    other than female sexual body parts…i dont know

    Biggest turn off?
    dont know

    How often do you masturbate?
    almost every time i take a shower…maybe 2-3 days off a week

    What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    penis.. maybe..this is embarrasing

    Self Love

    What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    only my brain…i like to think

    What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    figuring out by myself that we have no freewill..(do read up on Sam Harris about this, i only knew about him after i found out by myself on how we aint got no free will )

    Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    in general.. to contribute as much as i can in any way to humanity…specifically, im graduating with a bachelors degree in engineering soon, so hoping to go into the alternative energy field and FIND US SOME SOLUTIONS!

    How do you take care of yourself?
    i dont …really

    Hot Topics

    Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    YES

    Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    im not against it being legal

    If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    definitely fucking no

    Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    yes..for the most part… i dont care

    Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    high school

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    What do you want to be when you grow up?
    engineer, designer,researcher,business person, philanthropist, rich-er than i am now,

    Do you want to get married?
    yes.. someday

    Do you want to have children?
    yes

    What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Set the their wrongs right if i can and give love and care, and i dont know

  29. Sex+ Questionnaire For: Megan!
    Age: 15
    Sex: Female
    Location: Santa Cruz CA

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Through harry potter fanfiction that got graphic ;)

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Nope

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Yes! It was with my current boyfriend. It was rushed and nervous and awkward but it makes me feel all fuzzy anyway :3

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Being walked in on while masturbating :(

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I was 14 and a half. I felt ready and safe with my partner and I knew he wouldn’t hurt me and wasn’t pressuring me at all but I really wish I would have got to know my body more beforehand.
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Both!

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Being single is exciting and crushes are exciting and I like the opportunity, but it’s also lonely. I like having someone I can count on.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Sure although it would be tricky.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    Nope

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    Shortest was three weeks, longest a year and two months and counting.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Someone who I can talk to about anything, where we can lay in bed together and just talk. Someone who gives good hugs. Someone who loves animals and is kind to them, is supportive, thoughtful, giving and also willing to receive from me, someone I’m attracted to, kind, warm, and makes me feel safe.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Besides being abusive to me or anyone else, no.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    Um… asking for consent?

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Spooning!

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    I feel like it’d be really nice at the time but I’d feel awful after.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Breasts, hips, waist and feet!

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    Having sex with a girl! Or a threesome of some sort

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I definitely would but I haven’t (yet?)

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    I have but more mild forms of it. I’m not sure how I feel about the really intense stuff. I think it would be too much.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Nope!

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Being kissed and undressed

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Not feeling confident in my body or myself

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    Not as often as I used to but every once and awhile.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My waist and hips!

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My favorite thing about myself is my ability to care for and love people.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Probably becoming more free in being myself and feeling better about myself

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To not worry as much

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Hot showers, watching happy things, petting my cats, hugs

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Absolutely.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No!

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Absolutely.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Comprehensive please!!!

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    A surgeon specializing in general surgery or maybe pediatric surgery. I also would love to be a writer, a psychologist, or an english teacher.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Maybe someday :)

    36. Do you want to have children?
    I’m not sure. It depends on where I am in my life.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    Show them that I love them and everyone is deserving of love and care. Everyone.

    –without numbers if you want to edit it–

  30. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: AG
    Sex: F
    Location: USA

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    My parents, some books, and the internet.
    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Yeah, though it gets awkward at times. What I love about my mom is something she’s said to me a few times: “If you decide that sex is something you just really want before marriage, and before you’re able to get it, ask me to get you birth control. Being mature enough to ask for protection for yourself is being mature enough to have sex.”
    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    N/A
    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    As for my sexuality (asexuality), I haven’t had any truly embarrassing moments- but a bad one, I guess. One of my friends told me I wasn’t old enough to know for sure- Heck, I’ll never know for sure! But it’s what I identify as right now, and I like not having it invalidated.
    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    I have not made my sexual debut yet.
    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Nope!
    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    Being in a relationship. I am a very relationship-oriented, emotion-oriented individual. I prefer romance over friendship, but any relationship is a-ok by me.
    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    I don’t think so, it’s not for me.
    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    N/A
    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    N/A
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    They have to be able to make me laugh, and accept me- including my sexuality and my ideals. I also have to be able to trust them a lot, so I feel safe.
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    If I don’t feel sexually or physically safe, I cannot date them. If I feel pressured and can’t talk to them about it, I cannot date them.
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    N/A
    14. What is your favorite position?
    N/A, though I enjoy seeing art of the missionary. Good ol’ classics.
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    I don’t think I would.
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    N/A
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    I’m a little curious about sex itself, to be honest! It most likely won’t happen anytime soon, but if I trust someone enough to know they’ll stop when/if I ask and it won’t damage our relationship, I’d like to try.
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    I probably would not.
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    I have not/I would not.
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    Nope/Nope.
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    I don’t know of any!
    22. Biggest turn off?
    Again, don’t know of any!
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    I have never masturbated. It just doesn’t appeal to me.
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My vagina! What’s more erotic than genitalia?
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    I like my hands.
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    I have begun to realize that I am not at an unhealthy weight, nor am I undesirable.
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    My goal is to accept myself, completely.
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    I enjoy exercising and trying out new skin care!
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    Whole-heartedly.
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes, though maybe some regulations. I want anyone who chooses that lifestyle to be as safe as possible.
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    I’m not sure as of right now- I haven’t learned enough about the options and their results.
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    Yes!
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    Both, please!
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I want to be a forensic pathologist.
    35. Do you want to get married?
    I think so, but it’s not a pressing matter.
    36. Do you want to have children?
    I’m not sure yet. The process is not something that seems ideal to me, but I’d like children. Perhaps adoption, but I’m not worrying about it now.
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    I want to make people as happy as I can.

  31. Age: 60s
    Sex: M
    Location: New Zealand

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex?
    Furtive reading. Overheard conversations in middle school.

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
    Father, never. Mother, cautiously.

    3. Do you remember your first kiss?
    Am not sure.

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    Farting in bed.

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    37. Yes, altho’ had performance problems.

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
    Am married.

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
    I would not like being single at my age.

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
    Sounds like fun, but I believe in monogamy and commitment.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
    No.

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    I have been with my wife for 23 years. It has been my only sexual relationship.

    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    Hard to answer, because I am arguably a beggar who can’t be a chooser.

    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    Arrogance and control issues.

    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    I offer, and accept her refusal.

    14. What is your favorite position?
    Missionary.

    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    Never had one and have never been propositioned since meeting my wife.

    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    Foreskin.

    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    I would like to drop my pants and do a natural penis show-and-tell to a small group of curious adult women how the natural penis looks and works. This is a pure fantasy.

    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    No and no.

    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    No and no.

    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    No and no.

    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    Seeing women over 40 exhibit their vulvas on the internet while looking straight at the camera, with pride and satisfaction on their faces.

    22. Biggest turn off?
    Anything that combines lust and cruelty or domination.

    23. How often do you masturbate?
    3-4x a week.

    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    My foreskin.

    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    My natural penis.

    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    Publishing my first book.

    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    To help end routine infant circumcision in the USA.

    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    Hard to say.

    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    No.

    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    Yes.

    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    No.

    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    I can humour this, but am not keen on it.

    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    I see no possible agreement on what form sex education should take. So it cannot be done in public schools. I would welcome sex ed by churches, Planned Parenthood, YMCA, etc.

    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    I am near retirement.

    35. Do you want to get married?
    Have been for 23 years.

    36. Do you want to have children?
    I have 4 daughters.

    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    To convince the typical American that circumcision is very sex-negative.
    I would also like to see women past their 30th birthdays removed from the scope of indecent exposure laws. To tell fully adult women what parts of themselves they can and cannot expose is very patronising.

  32. Sex+ Questionnaire For:
    Age: 21
    Sex: Female
    Location: Washington state

    Sexual Awakenings

    1. How did you learn about sex? I was molested in the 2nd grade

    2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents? no

    3. Do you remember your first kiss? yes, very much so, in the 8th grade

    4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with your sexuality/partner/etc.
    there are so many, i was walked in on my a friend when i was loosing my virginity

    5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
    15, no. Not with the guy i chose

    Relationships

    6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship? yes, both

    7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why? relationship, its nice

    8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship? just realized i am in one. between my best friend and husband, but all of the kinks are not worked out. My bff and i are not physical.

    9. Have you ever cheated on a partner? nope

    10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
    only one is almost 6 years
    11. What do you look for in a partner?
    honesty, trust, commitment, ability to try new things, and love
    12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
    yes, chimos. (pedophiles)
    Sexploration

    13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
    simply asking. “can i…….”
    14. What is your favorite position?
    missionary
    15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
    no/nope
    16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
    back
    17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
    yes
    18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
    yes, and i have not
    19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
    yes, i have, but not extreme
    20. Would you/have you done role-play?
    not really
    21. What is your biggest turn on?
    kissing and fiery passion or the opposite, timid, sweet and shy
    22. Biggest turn off?
    uninteresting
    23. How often do you masturbate?
    once a week
    24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
    mouth
    Self Love

    25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
    my hair/lips
    26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
    getting married, moving out
    27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
    finish my degree
    28. How do you take care of yourself?
    by talking with my bff
    Hot Topics

    29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant?
    yes
    30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
    yes, less dangerous with regulations in place
    31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
    no way
    32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
    yes, they are in my state
    33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
    truthful.
    To Infinity, and Beyond

    34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
    a mother. a drug counselor for teens
    35. Do you want to get married?
    already am
    36. Do you want to have children?
    lots
    37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
    im not sure

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