How To Find the Clitoris

Do you know what your clitoris looks like?

Rip out your mirror and explore your vulva! Here’s a guide to help you find what you’re looking for.

Look out for another video on the clitoris this week!
I will be discussing common clitoris questions and offer some tips for clitoral stimulation during oral sex and self pleasure/masturbation. Feel free to send in any additional questions you have & I’ll do my best to offer some help.

PS
Lol, yeahhh… I forgot to move the vibrator. It’s there for the aforementioned follow-up vid that’ll be up later this week. XD

46 thoughts on “How To Find the Clitoris

  1. Great video guide for a newbie!

    Also, did you mean to have your vibrator in the video? I kept expecting you to grab it to show or something but you never did… Hahaha! But it’s a great type!

  2. i was wondering the same thing as she had said in an older video that that was her fave vibrator.Maybe she had plans for after the video was done. Also i expect to see some sort of diagram at some point or as i have seen vulva puppets.

    • You do realize it’s just a hoodie, right? Like any other sweater, you can wear it whenever. It doesn’t need to be worn specifically for Youtube videos or Youtube related things.

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  3. i followed with you in your video, and when i rub my clit, it doesn’t feel good. i found my clit, yeah, but i don’t feel any senses.

        • Uf, this makes me feel so sad… I don’t even know how that would work (my GP is fully free, after I pay my monthly 40€ of insurance fees (government pays more than 50% because I’m poor, jeej). Couldn’t you just walk into the GP’s office with a question? If he/she charges you money for spending 5 minutes of his time with you, he/she’s just an asshole. I’m sorry I can’t help you better. It’s just that I simply cannot comprehend living in a country thinks being healthy is only for those who can afford it. Again, just try. You shouldn’t be afraid to go to the GP just because you have no insurance or money. Ugh, this world is f’ing messed up =(

          • go to planned parenthood. this is they’re job. they will figure out a payment method/plan that works for you, or might see you for free.

    • It doesn’t always feel instantly good when you rub it, often you have to already be aroused, wet, or just be more gentle! Also constant stimulus I find can be irritating or even painful, so try on and off pressure. Hope that helps! :)

    • go to a clinic then, if you dont have insurance you can pay a co-payment to get help. if you dont make much money (or hardly any) you can get a government assistance card, in texas we call them M.A.P. cards.. basically all your meds and doctor visits will be free.. but this is something you really need to check out soon cause problems with your body only get worse without help. they never get better.

    • If 1: you’ve had access to an unfiltered version of the Internets and 2: are a person of the frequently randy variety, it’s hard not to know all this already. =P It’s kinda strange to me, how people have not figured this out yet for themselves. It’s such a natural instinct. But clearly there are people who don’t know…

      Laci Green: bringing you pleasure since… Wait, that came out wrong… =P

    • @ Rubz
      I think I get why a lot of people wouldn’t know.

      For starters, the internet is mostly porn, which isn’t that educational anyway. I think it’s good that a person like Laci, who comes off as friendly, positive, and well-intentioned, does make videos like this because they are going to be a lot more informative to young girls (and boys) than most other things on the internet.

      And that’s not even considering the way people are brainwashed to hate/fear the human body and sexuality.

      Oh, and safe! I forgot about that. The feeling of safety. I think Laci delivers that too.

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      • Pr0n can be educational… You just have to find the right stuff. =P

        I guess I underestimate the negative image masturbation has in some circles… So sad, peoples are really missing out… =P

        • I’ve never tried masturbating, as a female it’s not like it’s something that comes natural for me, I mean I don’t ever get erections or anything ever, I don’t think I even know what it’s like to feel sexually aroused, not really. I don’t know what I’d think about or what to do and I’ve never found my clitoris. I’m 22 years old and have never kissed anyone yet or gone on a date but I love watching Laci’s videos and this one too seems helpful and informative. I found her because of her atheism videos – I’d never go searching for a sex channel – but once I found her sex channel I couldn’t stop watching. She has so many great things to teach us all. ;) I know quite a bit more about my body down there now that I’ve bought a menstrual cup and used it for a few months now, which I also ended up buying after watching a vid of Laci’s. ;)

          When I have a chance sometime I’ll feel around and try to find my clitoris like this video suggested. ;)

          • We are nothing and everything all at the same time. Just matter that combined itself in this shape and will break apart and form into everything else. Enjoy yourself in the short few years we have.

    • I agree, it’s very sad.

      But I think it’s a lot worse than that, because it’s worse than missing out.

      I’ve had plenty of days -hell, weeks, even months- where I was so busy I just sort of stopped masturbating (or having sex, but that’s more to do with not having a partner than being busy) and I wasn’t going bonkers.

      What really sucks is that it is replaced with a completely negative thing instead: guilt, shame, and hatred.

      Frankly, indoctrinating children to hate themselves for their sexuality, for curiosity about their growing bodies, and obviously the new things they will start to feel as teenagers is as monstrous as doing the same for their urges to eat or sleep. I don’t see it as any different as telling a child that they are impure for feeling hungry.

      It makes me sad because it isn’t just the absence of normal and healthy human behavior; it’s the demonization of it.

      And there are systematic reasons for it. There are reasons why rackets try to control these minuscule aspects of people’s lives. I think that a big one is that people can’t and won’t address bigger issues when they are constantly barraged with other issues which on a grand scale are irrelevant but individually control an entire person’s life.

      Ah, anyway, that’s a bit of a tangent, so I’ll just stop now.

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      • I guess by now it’s safe to conclude that you are a citizen of the American variety… =P I have to say, as a young citizen of a country that has: declining numbers of churchgoers, legal and regulated prostitution, freer censoring laws, fairly proper sex ed classes, and is one of the leading nations when it comes to high speed Internets for all (who can pay the average fee of 25€), I can say that sex is not thát big of a taboo anymore. Don’t get me wrong, it still is, but it’s more accessible, I imagine, than in a country like, say, the US of A. I was neither encouraged nor discouraged to explore sex. I was just told to be safe, cause it’s not without dangers, and occasionally older folk would jokingly tell me to sleep with my hands above the covers. Or they would mumble “jerking off makes you deaf” and then laugh when I replied with “what?”. Someone once said: “je kunt niet groot brengen, door klein te houden”. Which means as much as, you can’t raise by restricting…

        • Ye… i was raised on the basis of “say anything. i mean ANYTHING about THAT word (sex) and you cant even imagine the punishment”. never had “the talk” or for that matter one word about it. ever. I turned out fairly normal aside from the social category so i would say its all fine and dandy.

      • (Bagh! I keep making mistakes with these comments. Hopefully I’ll figure it out soon enough.)

        Anyway, yeah, just said that you guessed wrong, but you may not have noticed it since the post came up top instead of below your post.

  4. Hmmm the video didn’t load on my computer. Sucks for me. I know where my clitoris is I just wanted to see how you explained it.

  5. odd question. If one wanted to pleasure a female with orally or otherwise… would one want to pull back the clitoral hood before attempting to do so?

    • I wouldn’t, some girls are really sensitive and it can hurt if you touch the clit directly, best to start on the hood and assess her reaction, then if she seems ok start gently on the actual clit, just make sure you don’t get too rough.

  6. Hello, Me and my girlfriend have just about started to have sex and when I’m giving her oral stimulation I’m not sure I’ve found the clitoris. It’s like a little knob right above the inner lips, the reason to why as I’m uncertain is that she does not respond more when I’m sucking on it then when just , licking around it. Really apreciate an answear!
    Sincerly yours Gustav

  7. I’m going to need to see you give a more detailed explanation with some flesh to find my clitoris that I don’t have.

  8. when i saw your draw my life i was lik: THANK GOD!!!!!!!! becose of the fact that when you were 10 you found the sex isal in the library and you were obsesed with sex becose im 10 and im obsesed with sex! :D

  9. I couldn’t find or feel anything. I felt a tiny bump. If I remember correctly, I think I may have destroyed it…

  10. I can’t load the video, just comes up as a blue logo type piece? Anyone else? I’m watching it on my phone does that make a difference?

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