Speaking of gender….
Ah, an ode to the “gender obsession” that has only recently been exhibited in much of the world. I remember once getting into my parents’ old photo box. My dad got super flustered and embarrassed when I pulled out a picture of him as a baby living in Iran. There he was in the garden with my grandma, sporting long curly locks & a big poofy dress. Haha, I find it hilarious how deeply the photo seems to disturb him. It’s definitely not considered “normal” anymore to grow a male child’s hair out and dress them in dresses.
If the baby has a penis, we gender them “boy” and immediately immerse them in their social training about what it means to be a boy. I recall a particularly amusing episode of Rugrats which commented on this phenomenon. In the episode “Clan of the Duck“, Chuckie and Phil notice that Betty (feminist mama extraordinaire, incase you didn’t catch that when you were 7) wears pants. With a swift kick of radical baby logic, they decide that it’s not fair that boys aren’t allowed to wear dresses. So, they cross dress. The commentary thickens as Chuckie and Phil embark on an adventure wherein they encounter other babies who think that they are girls. Oh mayn. I love Rugrats.
Boy baby training is pretty straight forward. From day 1: blues, greens, possibly yellows. Trucks, cars, action figures, and sports. Short hair. Pants or shorts & shirts. No flowers, no rainbows, no hearts and unicorns, no pink, no purple, no long hair, and for the love of jaysus…..NO DRESSES!!!1!!
A little later, our behavioral training starts. Keep the crying to a minimum (it’s wimpy), be tough, be strong, be brave. Aggression more permissible (boys will be boys). Activities more likely to include sports, cars, hunting, competition. Activities less likely to include baking, sewing, crafts, and dainty things.
All because you have a penis.
For fellow youtubers, this contrast has been perfectly illustrated in the last 2 videos uploaded by the “ShayTards”. In their most recent upload, “Sontard” and Shay (dad) work to saw a Pinewood Derby Car for an all-male competition they are in at church (this is a annual thing mormons do). Preceeding it, “Princesstard” and “Babytard” have a tea party with Katielette (mom).